Love is a strong and emotional feeling.
My first memory of Love,
I can recall my Parents expressing their feelings through telling me and by wrapping their arms around me was a feeling of security.
That was one way they expressed their Love.
Even at an infant’s stage, the child’s mind can feel the expression of love from their Parents.
The feeling was created to give and to receive.
The professing of love is detrimental to ones life.
As a plant needs water, a person needs Love.
Without water the plant will die.
A Person without love, or feels they are loved, Mankind has no hope.
In the case of suicide, the common denominator is lack of feeling Loved and Respected.
Enjoyment is prompted by a loving feeling or caring for ones and what you do.
Being completely satisfied is a necessity of life.
A common thought about a daily employment “I hate my Job”.
What really creates that thought, a lack of desire or pleasure?
Finding a job you enjoy or the feeling of appreciation is a need.
The same goes for a Marriage.
Finding a companion that will fulfill your needs and interests will be one of the main reasons to enjoy life.
But finding your Creator is the most important way to feel your life is complete.
When you get to the point when you do not feel like you can reach out and touch the one you need during tough times, who moved?
You need to feel excitement and pleasure, when you walk into the doors of your Home, or you’re Church.
“Am I really doing my job or keeping the trust the other one needs for me to keep peace and fulfillment in our relationship”.
Relationships should have the feelings of love, respect is very important.
Keeping or finding that 1st love, my memory was trying to find that special person.
I am very blest that I found that peace within. After I found that special person I felt complete.
To maintain that special feeling, takes effort from both in your relationship.
There is no room for selfishness, giving is a necessity.
Not sharing the wrong thoughts of your mind, blaming the other person will get you nowhere.
Cutting off ones hands during disagreements, could affect you when you need a hand to keep from falling down.
During your disagreements, start resolving the issue with love and kindness,
as a child is being raised, correcting with care and mercy is a must.
Love will last forever, where discouragement and wrong correction will damage and scar ones permanently.
Monday, July 19, 2010
Friday, July 9, 2010
What is the Path?
Every day of our lives, there is a road ahead of us.
Whether it is rough or smooth, straight or at an angle
Uphill or downhill, life is tough.
As you develop into adulthood, life goes on faster.
You may be tested and tried or prosperous and successful.
Whatever comes your way, life is exciting and interesting.
Every day you wake up, you never know what is in store for you.
Turmoil. What is the definition?
“Anything that barricades us from success or happiness is called
the turmoil of life.”
On your life’s journey, we will come across pitfalls and stumbling blocks.
On roads you thought you knew where you were going, suddenly you came up to a dead end.
Who provided the directions?
Who did you put your trust in?
When times become rough, you will usually find or look for a friend.
There is always one friend who will never leave you.
He will always give you a chance to put your trust in him.
All you have to do is open up your heart and let him in.
Whether it is rough or smooth, straight or at an angle
Uphill or downhill, life is tough.
As you develop into adulthood, life goes on faster.
You may be tested and tried or prosperous and successful.
Whatever comes your way, life is exciting and interesting.
Every day you wake up, you never know what is in store for you.
Turmoil. What is the definition?
“Anything that barricades us from success or happiness is called
the turmoil of life.”
On your life’s journey, we will come across pitfalls and stumbling blocks.
On roads you thought you knew where you were going, suddenly you came up to a dead end.
Who provided the directions?
Who did you put your trust in?
When times become rough, you will usually find or look for a friend.
There is always one friend who will never leave you.
He will always give you a chance to put your trust in him.
All you have to do is open up your heart and let him in.
Sunday, June 13, 2010
The Devotion towards Family.
The Family Unity needs to feel Passion and Enmity towards one another.
Your Parents express their Love by giving, time, needs, and support
for development.
Siblings are there for companionship. through good times, and through tough times of life.
During your adolescence your family is so important for calming problems that Occur in your life.
I was fortunate to have 3 sisters that were there for me.
Having one older, and 2 younger, all my stages of development I had someone
to lean upon.
So in a capsule form, Love in giving time is a necessity. and Love it is a demand for growth.
To be able to practice showing expressions of feelings, is a need.
Loyalty is an indication of being faithful, and to be able to put confidence in.
I have one son, he was my only child. Sometimes being a only child could have draw backs.
In this case I was able to have a connection with him that replaced brothers that neither one of us had.
A devoted family is motivation to move on with life.
At the same time you wish time could slow down, so you can have more time to enjoy.
Even if you did not have any children or siblings, you have more time to spend with a Spouse,family or friends.
Sometimes you think of a bond, is something that holds together.
But a bond can be something to help release good feelings you have, and to express Compassionate affection towards others.
Union- group with shared interest or feelings. A same goal to achieve.
Devoted or fervid bonding time is necessary for happiness.
My life is devoted to my Wife, Son and all my Friends and Family.
That is what we were created for, A bond with God and all his family.
Your Parents express their Love by giving, time, needs, and support
for development.
Siblings are there for companionship. through good times, and through tough times of life.
During your adolescence your family is so important for calming problems that Occur in your life.
I was fortunate to have 3 sisters that were there for me.
Having one older, and 2 younger, all my stages of development I had someone
to lean upon.
So in a capsule form, Love in giving time is a necessity. and Love it is a demand for growth.
To be able to practice showing expressions of feelings, is a need.
Loyalty is an indication of being faithful, and to be able to put confidence in.
I have one son, he was my only child. Sometimes being a only child could have draw backs.
In this case I was able to have a connection with him that replaced brothers that neither one of us had.
A devoted family is motivation to move on with life.
At the same time you wish time could slow down, so you can have more time to enjoy.
Even if you did not have any children or siblings, you have more time to spend with a Spouse,family or friends.
Sometimes you think of a bond, is something that holds together.
But a bond can be something to help release good feelings you have, and to express Compassionate affection towards others.
Union- group with shared interest or feelings. A same goal to achieve.
Devoted or fervid bonding time is necessary for happiness.
My life is devoted to my Wife, Son and all my Friends and Family.
That is what we were created for, A bond with God and all his family.
Monday, June 7, 2010
What Lies Within
What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us.
Looking behind will just be stumbling blocks for the path ahead.
Change is to be made for trying to correct any past failures or faults. Fearing the change will never let me get ahead.
Just like finances, the only way to get ahead financially is correcting my wrong ways of mishandling of my funds. Seeing what is more important to spend my money on.
In the case of finances, the only way to get ahead financially is correcting my wrong ways of mishandling of my funds. Seeing what is more important to spend my money on.
The pathways and success of my Forefathers, should be an easy guide to live by.
Studying the mistakes from ancestors, should show me the trail not to follow.
The past should be the influence in my life.
Wrong discussions are easy to condemn, when I did not have to give or come up with the answer.
Looking behind will just be stumbling blocks for the path ahead.
Change is to be made for trying to correct any past failures or faults. Fearing the change will never let me get ahead.
Just like finances, the only way to get ahead financially is correcting my wrong ways of mishandling of my funds. Seeing what is more important to spend my money on.
In the case of finances, the only way to get ahead financially is correcting my wrong ways of mishandling of my funds. Seeing what is more important to spend my money on.
The pathways and success of my Forefathers, should be an easy guide to live by.
Studying the mistakes from ancestors, should show me the trail not to follow.
The past should be the influence in my life.
Wrong discussions are easy to condemn, when I did not have to give or come up with the answer.
Friday, May 28, 2010
Our destiny
Our destiny changes with our thought; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do, when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire
Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice: It is not a thing to be waited for; it is a thing to be achieved.
A Successful future is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person you become.
An example is often a deceptive mirror, and the order of destiny, so troubling to our thoughts, is not always found written in things past.
As long as we are persistence in our pursuit of our deepest destiny, we will continue to grow. We cannot choose the day or time when we will fully bloom. It happens in its own time.
Children... are our legacy. Our responsibility. They are our destiny and we are theirs. The extent to which we fail as parents, we fail as God's children.
Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
Everything happens for a reason. I'm used to it, I prepare for it. Like I say, at the end of the day, those in charge of their own destiny are going to do what's rights for them and their family.\
I believe that you control your destiny, that you can be what you want to be. You can also stop and say, No, I won't do it, I won't behave his way anymore. I'm lonely and I need people around me, maybe I have to change my methods of behaving and then you do it.
If you create an act, you create a habit. If you create a habit, you create a character. If you create a character, you create a destiny.
Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone-we find it with another.
Our destiny changes with our thought; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do, when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire
.The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
The way of the Creative works through change and transformation, so that each thing receives its true nature and destiny and comes into permanent accord with the Great Harmony: this is what furthers and what perseveres.
There is only one thing which can master the perplexed stuff of epic material into unity; and that is, an ability to see in particular human experience some significant symbolism of man's general destiny.
Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice: It is not a thing to be waited for; it is a thing to be achieved.
A Successful future is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person you become.
An example is often a deceptive mirror, and the order of destiny, so troubling to our thoughts, is not always found written in things past.
As long as we are persistence in our pursuit of our deepest destiny, we will continue to grow. We cannot choose the day or time when we will fully bloom. It happens in its own time.
Children... are our legacy. Our responsibility. They are our destiny and we are theirs. The extent to which we fail as parents, we fail as God's children.
Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
Everything happens for a reason. I'm used to it, I prepare for it. Like I say, at the end of the day, those in charge of their own destiny are going to do what's rights for them and their family.\
I believe that you control your destiny, that you can be what you want to be. You can also stop and say, No, I won't do it, I won't behave his way anymore. I'm lonely and I need people around me, maybe I have to change my methods of behaving and then you do it.
If you create an act, you create a habit. If you create a habit, you create a character. If you create a character, you create a destiny.
Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone-we find it with another.
Our destiny changes with our thought; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do, when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire
.The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
The way of the Creative works through change and transformation, so that each thing receives its true nature and destiny and comes into permanent accord with the Great Harmony: this is what furthers and what perseveres.
There is only one thing which can master the perplexed stuff of epic material into unity; and that is, an ability to see in particular human experience some significant symbolism of man's general destiny.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Disagreeing Respectfully
A disagreement with your Wife, family or friends, is a feeling that is easy and common to have.
If you have learned how to disagree without being disagreeable, then you have discovered the secret of getting along - whether it be business, family and friendships, or life itself.
To disagree, one doesn't have to be disagreeable.
We may disagree on some things, but we can do so without being disagreeable.
The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree, but still hold hands.
Be willing to listen.
Begin with a commitment to listen - be open minded and consider other points of view. Listen regardless of whether you agree or disagree with what's said. Resist the urge to jump to conclusions; be defensive or be argumentative with the speaker.
Be patient, we often interrupt because we are afraid we will forget our point(s). Do not interrupt allow the speaker to finish what she/he has to say. Don't finish the speaker's sentences because you think they're taking too long to get to the point. Focus on what is being said instead of what you think is going to be said.
Leaders who win the respect of others are the ones who deliver more than they promise, not the ones who promise more than they can deliver.”
Until we respect ourselves how can we respect someone else?
If you feel that you’re not respected, start respecting others.
To finalize if I believe I am really right, am I living what I want ones to believe in. Am I treating others as I want to be treated?
I am really trying myself.
If you have learned how to disagree without being disagreeable, then you have discovered the secret of getting along - whether it be business, family and friendships, or life itself.
To disagree, one doesn't have to be disagreeable.
We may disagree on some things, but we can do so without being disagreeable.
The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree, but still hold hands.
Be willing to listen.
Begin with a commitment to listen - be open minded and consider other points of view. Listen regardless of whether you agree or disagree with what's said. Resist the urge to jump to conclusions; be defensive or be argumentative with the speaker.
Be patient, we often interrupt because we are afraid we will forget our point(s). Do not interrupt allow the speaker to finish what she/he has to say. Don't finish the speaker's sentences because you think they're taking too long to get to the point. Focus on what is being said instead of what you think is going to be said.
Leaders who win the respect of others are the ones who deliver more than they promise, not the ones who promise more than they can deliver.”
Until we respect ourselves how can we respect someone else?
If you feel that you’re not respected, start respecting others.
To finalize if I believe I am really right, am I living what I want ones to believe in. Am I treating others as I want to be treated?
I am really trying myself.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Peace in our lives.
The way to have peace is if we let go of wanting to change the past and wanting to control the future. Like footprints in the sand, you can see where you came from,
But when the powerful water of the ocean "(or pur water of life)" washes over the sand, looking back they are all washed away. The water of life is a cover over us, just like it washes over the land of this earthly dwelling place.
But when the powerful water of the ocean "(or pur water of life)" washes over the sand, looking back they are all washed away. The water of life is a cover over us, just like it washes over the land of this earthly dwelling place.
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