Communication is a demand in life.
Expressing oneself will need to start with two open minds.
If it would be a marriage, family, business or in friendships,
Discussions or conversations are necessary.
It is just a courtesy to pay attention to ones that are trying
to relate to you their inner thoughts or needs.
In your family if you do not share ones ideas or problems,
It would be very hard to keep peace and love within each ones life.
Misunderstandings will take place in everyone’s life.
There are always ways to repair miscommunications.
Communication is having a sympathetic attitude while conversation with ones.
Training someone to work with the public, ones need to be attentive while ones release their feelings.
Letting ones speak their heart and emotions, usually will help ones bring peace
to their minds and soul.
Now is there is also selfish communication.
Most of the time, you can find this definition in process on the US Senate floor.
Do not make Assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
The longing we have to communicate clearly and directly with people is always hindered by how we express concern about our messages will be received.
The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives.
But you must realize that by holding yourself back, you are not only suppressing your feelings, knowledge and opinion. You are also denying the other person the opportunity to learn about you. This can affect you greatly in the long run.
Good relationships have a lot of benefits. It brings two individuals together. This is why communication skills for couples or communication skills in marriage assume significance. This also clears disagreements and misunderstandings between two people if there is proper communication between the two.
Relationships can work mutually only when we listen properly and speak frankly to the other. Thus, communication skills in relationships have great significance in bringing overall progress and better relationships with each and everybody.
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Monday, September 13, 2010
Attaining a life of peace
“Sometimes ones did not even comprehend the confliction within ones, and with others.”
When the soul has come to the place where it can no longer take it, it snaps. There are many souls who pride themselves that they can "take it." They spend their entire lives convincing themselves and others they are tough. They are tough. Their insides have become hardened. They have no peace, but they proclaim great peace with themselves and with others. That’s because they must prove it and if they say they have peace, that’s all the proof they need. They become very angry if you question their inner peace. They are the children of experts. They were brought up by the new thoughts coming from the new storytellers. But others, whose hearts have not become hardened, but merely overcome, become "mentally ill" and have to be put away. Perhaps their mental illness leads them to suicide, or murder. There are other forms losing control takes, but none of them are pretty to look at.
To instill peace in yourself, you must build slowly and follow through with your plans. Some people find that they already have these traits. Some people have to work to attain them. One will build peace if one is a conscious worker. One can create peace with the right ingredients. The political and personal will must be embedded in you to create harmony amongst yourself and the people around you. One important factor to constantly remind yourself is that of the sheer patience one must have to build peace. It does not come within days
.Until you make peace with who you are, you will never be content with what you have
When the power of love completes the love of power the world will know peace
Peace is not the absence of conflict; it is the ability to handle conflict by peaceful means.
You will never find peace of mind until you listen to your heart.
Ones have no peace, but they proclaim great peace with themselves and with others. That is because they must prove it and if they say they have peace, that’s all the proof they need.
One important factor to constantly remind yourself is that of the sheer patience one must have to build peace.
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Attitude-
It is our attitude at the beginning of a difficult undertaking or misunderstanding, which more than anything else, will determine its successful or unsuccessful outcome.”
I cannot change the wind, but I can always adjust the sails to reach my destination.
Attitudes are nothing more than habits of thoughts, and habits can be acquired. “An action repeated becomes an attitude realized.”
In the beginning the first feelings that were created, shown and expressed
Were the feelings of Love, Giving, Sharing, and Caring.
But do the act of reason, the attributes changed; Man became (Selfish, Hateful, Covetous, Resentful and Bitter).
That is why God made a way to give Man the ability for a new start.
A new Start was created and a made way through a transformation of Life.
Only the act of reconciliation, will be the way to put Mankind back into his
Rightful place.
Through expression of spiritual feelings and guidance, will be the way to
Bring forth life filled with Love, Joy, Peace and Happiness back into harmony.
Living through adjectives of Love, our lives will grow to full maturity and completeness.
Man was created to live a life that would flourish to have a Family that would be
Consummated to Completeness.
There are messages that are called “Prosperity Messages or Teachings”,
Living the message of Man. has the ability to create problems and difficulties
In ones lives.
The life of that will follow will bring forth greed, jealousy, power and unhappiness
Love is the only message that will bring Life to its Fullness and Happiness.
Attitude is the way you mentally look at the world around you. It is how you view your environment and your future. It is the focus you develop toward life itself.”
You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.”
If you will call your troubles experiences, and remember that every experience develops some latent force within you, you will grow vigorous and happy, however adverse your circumstances may seem to be.”
The Acts of Mercy and Charity will bring you a treatment of compassion, respect
and giving to help ones in need.
Consequently we are here under the mercy of God.
Judgments without full understandings, is like Emotions without Love and Compassion.
Emotion is an effectuated mental feeling, and being devotional in actions of care and respect in regards to other Children of God.
Showing Judgment without Mercy in the World is known as controlling others.
The nest way to see if actions have been in the wrong is by the outcome.
As I am traveling and I am looking for directions and the map that was provided
did not take me to the destination I was headed for,
Could it be that the map was in need for a update.
Not to say that the format or the layout of the original map was wrong,
It could be that others structures have been built upon the old roads.
So due to the new development, a new path was designed.
As long as the structure of the road is still in tact and will last as long as the original, a moderation of new paving is all that is needed.
As long as the Head Foreman and Master Designer is in charged,
I should have no worries to drive on the road that will lead to my final destination.
I cannot change the wind, but I can always adjust the sails to reach my destination.
Attitudes are nothing more than habits of thoughts, and habits can be acquired. “An action repeated becomes an attitude realized.”
In the beginning the first feelings that were created, shown and expressed
Were the feelings of Love, Giving, Sharing, and Caring.
But do the act of reason, the attributes changed; Man became (Selfish, Hateful, Covetous, Resentful and Bitter).
That is why God made a way to give Man the ability for a new start.
A new Start was created and a made way through a transformation of Life.
Only the act of reconciliation, will be the way to put Mankind back into his
Rightful place.
Through expression of spiritual feelings and guidance, will be the way to
Bring forth life filled with Love, Joy, Peace and Happiness back into harmony.
Living through adjectives of Love, our lives will grow to full maturity and completeness.
Man was created to live a life that would flourish to have a Family that would be
Consummated to Completeness.
There are messages that are called “Prosperity Messages or Teachings”,
Living the message of Man. has the ability to create problems and difficulties
In ones lives.
The life of that will follow will bring forth greed, jealousy, power and unhappiness
Love is the only message that will bring Life to its Fullness and Happiness.
Attitude is the way you mentally look at the world around you. It is how you view your environment and your future. It is the focus you develop toward life itself.”
You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.”
If you will call your troubles experiences, and remember that every experience develops some latent force within you, you will grow vigorous and happy, however adverse your circumstances may seem to be.”
The Acts of Mercy and Charity will bring you a treatment of compassion, respect
and giving to help ones in need.
Consequently we are here under the mercy of God.
Judgments without full understandings, is like Emotions without Love and Compassion.
Emotion is an effectuated mental feeling, and being devotional in actions of care and respect in regards to other Children of God.
Showing Judgment without Mercy in the World is known as controlling others.
The nest way to see if actions have been in the wrong is by the outcome.
As I am traveling and I am looking for directions and the map that was provided
did not take me to the destination I was headed for,
Could it be that the map was in need for a update.
Not to say that the format or the layout of the original map was wrong,
It could be that others structures have been built upon the old roads.
So due to the new development, a new path was designed.
As long as the structure of the road is still in tact and will last as long as the original, a moderation of new paving is all that is needed.
As long as the Head Foreman and Master Designer is in charged,
I should have no worries to drive on the road that will lead to my final destination.
Sunday, September 5, 2010
Investments you make,
In some investments you make, you seldom see the prosperity of your decisions right away.
It takes time for investments to flourish.
Your broker will guide you, but it is still your decision to buy or sell.
If I would invest without corresponding with my broker,
It was my choice if it ended up being the wrong move.
How can I blame it on my Broker? It would not be his fault I made the wrong conclusion.
My broker is really just a guide, one that suggests or gives their opinion.
Another term is wisdom.
Finally my debt was paid off and my checkbook was balanced and my savings was being built.
That is when I really felt I was thankful for the ones that showed me how to budget.
It took me to be studious and conservative with my own finances.
No one else could have done it for me.
It took me to make up my mind to be successful.
When I ask God or someone else for help or assistance,
It is up to me to listen.
When I ask God for right answer, most of the time it is not a verbal response.
God does enlighten our minds, or quicken our thoughts?
God does make answers clearer for us?
With His assistance, we are assisted to make the right decisions.
The conclusion or resolution is mine.
Eph. 1: 17, 18 Mt. 11: 28-30
It takes time for investments to flourish.
Your broker will guide you, but it is still your decision to buy or sell.
If I would invest without corresponding with my broker,
It was my choice if it ended up being the wrong move.
How can I blame it on my Broker? It would not be his fault I made the wrong conclusion.
My broker is really just a guide, one that suggests or gives their opinion.
Another term is wisdom.
Finally my debt was paid off and my checkbook was balanced and my savings was being built.
That is when I really felt I was thankful for the ones that showed me how to budget.
It took me to be studious and conservative with my own finances.
No one else could have done it for me.
It took me to make up my mind to be successful.
When I ask God or someone else for help or assistance,
It is up to me to listen.
When I ask God for right answer, most of the time it is not a verbal response.
God does enlighten our minds, or quicken our thoughts?
God does make answers clearer for us?
With His assistance, we are assisted to make the right decisions.
The conclusion or resolution is mine.
Eph. 1: 17, 18 Mt. 11: 28-30
Who really knows
He who thinks he knows, but uncertain what he knows
( is uncertain )
He that knows he knows but cannot prove he knows,
does he really know.
( is confused)
He that knows, but is uncertain what he knows
( is unstable)
He that is sure he knows can say and prove he knows,
Is a person that really knows, ( is confident )
He that knows not what he says he knows ( is insecure)
( is uncertain )
He that knows he knows but cannot prove he knows,
does he really know.
( is confused)
He that knows, but is uncertain what he knows
( is unstable)
He that is sure he knows can say and prove he knows,
Is a person that really knows, ( is confident )
He that knows not what he says he knows ( is insecure)
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
The Master Potter
How can I put the blame on anyone else, if I do not try to make the effort to fix it first?
Like clay on a potter’s wheel, until it is a master piece, a continual molding and shaping is being preformed to make it complete.
Visualizing the piece before it is complete is difficult. Each potter has their own
clay to mold and shape, As it is to each artist’s own work they only will be able
to perceive each flaw to be repaired.
Assistance can be provided by the Master Potter.
After clay is hardened, it is tough to repair mistakes.
Adjustments are finished by the hands that created each artwork.
Only the Master potter that taught each one to create sculptures can show mistakes that are made.
Homemade clay does not have the exact same ingredients as other potters have.
Clay can be developed or created by several different chemicals.
Not every potter has the same choices to be used, so one has to use what is in each one’s own possession or use what is available to each one.
All potters’ wheels are not created or built the same. Wheels are built with difference sizes.
The speed of each wheel has its own speed. And how fast each wheel is turned is up to each potter.
The foundations of each potter’s wheel are basically the same, but some are manual and some are electric, but each one can get the job done.
The speed of the wheel that is to be used depends on the type of clay that is
furnished or provided for each one.
Some ingredients of clay may make the clay harden up faster, and some you are able to spend more time sculpting.
Every showpiece is molded into each ones own understanding of art.
Art symbolizes the heart of each artist’s own skill, to perceive what and how
Masterpieces should be created or formed.
When going to sell art, every buyer has different tastes. You may be able to fulfill their craving or needs to complete each buyers own collections, remember that some use art to assist a sale of a home, and some enjoy just looking deep within ones talents.
You have to cipher out the differences of wants and needs, decisions are to be made
by the provider.
Provisions are to be given through abilities of everyone that is trying to provide help for ones.
The needs for my household will be different than the needs in other ones’ homes.
I can only perceive or decide what I need to control what I call my own.
I might be able to assist or give my opinion to help, but it still is up to each overseer
of their own house for what is to be needed to help comeplete their own masterpiece.
It will be still up to each potter to be able to finish their own work or calling
Like clay on a potter’s wheel, until it is a master piece, a continual molding and shaping is being preformed to make it complete.
Visualizing the piece before it is complete is difficult. Each potter has their own
clay to mold and shape, As it is to each artist’s own work they only will be able
to perceive each flaw to be repaired.
Assistance can be provided by the Master Potter.
After clay is hardened, it is tough to repair mistakes.
Adjustments are finished by the hands that created each artwork.
Only the Master potter that taught each one to create sculptures can show mistakes that are made.
Homemade clay does not have the exact same ingredients as other potters have.
Clay can be developed or created by several different chemicals.
Not every potter has the same choices to be used, so one has to use what is in each one’s own possession or use what is available to each one.
All potters’ wheels are not created or built the same. Wheels are built with difference sizes.
The speed of each wheel has its own speed. And how fast each wheel is turned is up to each potter.
The foundations of each potter’s wheel are basically the same, but some are manual and some are electric, but each one can get the job done.
The speed of the wheel that is to be used depends on the type of clay that is
furnished or provided for each one.
Some ingredients of clay may make the clay harden up faster, and some you are able to spend more time sculpting.
Every showpiece is molded into each ones own understanding of art.
Art symbolizes the heart of each artist’s own skill, to perceive what and how
Masterpieces should be created or formed.
When going to sell art, every buyer has different tastes. You may be able to fulfill their craving or needs to complete each buyers own collections, remember that some use art to assist a sale of a home, and some enjoy just looking deep within ones talents.
You have to cipher out the differences of wants and needs, decisions are to be made
by the provider.
Provisions are to be given through abilities of everyone that is trying to provide help for ones.
The needs for my household will be different than the needs in other ones’ homes.
I can only perceive or decide what I need to control what I call my own.
I might be able to assist or give my opinion to help, but it still is up to each overseer
of their own house for what is to be needed to help comeplete their own masterpiece.
It will be still up to each potter to be able to finish their own work or calling
To be pacifistic at Heart
“Sometimes ones did not even comprehend the conflict within oneself and with others.”
When the soul has come to the place where it can no longer can take it, it snaps.
There are many souls who pride themselves that they can "take it."
They spend their entire lives convincing themselves and others they are tough.
Their insides have become hardened.
They have no peace, but they proclaim great peace with themselves and with others.
That’s because they must prove it, and if they say they have peace, that’s all the proof they need. They become very angry if you question their inner peace. They are the children of experts.
They were brought up by the new thoughts coming from the new storytellers.
But others, whose hearts have not become hardened but merely overcome, become "mentally ill" and have to be put away.
Perhaps their mental illness leads them to suicide or murder. There are other forms losing control takes, but none of them are pretty to look at.
"We extend our hand towards peace.
Our people are committed to peace. We know that peace entails painful compromise for both sides." Ariel Sharon
And if we don’t have peace with God, we will all the more lack His wisdom to deal with other people.
So when we wonder why we don’t have peace and harmony at home, at work, or at church, we have to look first and foremost into our relationship with God. Do we have peace and harmony with God?
All believers are God's children born by the Holy Spirit.
God would be pleased if His children can live in harmony.
On the other hand, discord among His children will bring grief to God.
If brothers and sisters can live in harmony and love, God will regard this as good and beautiful, and will bestow upon us the greatest blessings. “How good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in unity!” (Ps 133:1-3)
Therefore, we should all the more be kind to others and be an example to them of what being God’s children mean.
It is to have His love and His compassion, His patience and His way of resolving issues; that is, to have His virtues.
When we have peace with God and understand His will for us, we also understand His heart for the lost souls in this world. If we don’t have God’s peace with men, it is difficult to approach them as we are resentful or apathetic
If we can practice these principles of peace, not only can we achieve harmony and peace with everyone, we will all the more be pleasing to God and be blessed by Him abundantly.
Peace and Safety will come about, when ones will have peace within all of God's people.
God is the only Judge of who will be part of his Church and Family.
When the soul has come to the place where it can no longer can take it, it snaps.
There are many souls who pride themselves that they can "take it."
They spend their entire lives convincing themselves and others they are tough.
Their insides have become hardened.
They have no peace, but they proclaim great peace with themselves and with others.
That’s because they must prove it, and if they say they have peace, that’s all the proof they need. They become very angry if you question their inner peace. They are the children of experts.
They were brought up by the new thoughts coming from the new storytellers.
But others, whose hearts have not become hardened but merely overcome, become "mentally ill" and have to be put away.
Perhaps their mental illness leads them to suicide or murder. There are other forms losing control takes, but none of them are pretty to look at.
"We extend our hand towards peace.
Our people are committed to peace. We know that peace entails painful compromise for both sides." Ariel Sharon
And if we don’t have peace with God, we will all the more lack His wisdom to deal with other people.
So when we wonder why we don’t have peace and harmony at home, at work, or at church, we have to look first and foremost into our relationship with God. Do we have peace and harmony with God?
All believers are God's children born by the Holy Spirit.
God would be pleased if His children can live in harmony.
On the other hand, discord among His children will bring grief to God.
If brothers and sisters can live in harmony and love, God will regard this as good and beautiful, and will bestow upon us the greatest blessings. “How good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in unity!” (Ps 133:1-3)
Therefore, we should all the more be kind to others and be an example to them of what being God’s children mean.
It is to have His love and His compassion, His patience and His way of resolving issues; that is, to have His virtues.
When we have peace with God and understand His will for us, we also understand His heart for the lost souls in this world. If we don’t have God’s peace with men, it is difficult to approach them as we are resentful or apathetic
If we can practice these principles of peace, not only can we achieve harmony and peace with everyone, we will all the more be pleasing to God and be blessed by Him abundantly.
Peace and Safety will come about, when ones will have peace within all of God's people.
God is the only Judge of who will be part of his Church and Family.
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