Mind of man

When man leads by his decision the destination is unknown, but following the path that Christ left for man will lead us to God's plan in the garden.

Guidance by the carnal mind and heart, will be a life directed without charity and love.

As man lives by the fruits of the spirit, achieving God's plan for mankind will have less difficulties.

1st reason for your Friendship

One thing about true friends try to understand without blaming first.

Never forget the reason you became friends, if that is always put first, concern will never be lost. Finding the first spark that enlightened being a friend, will help the flame to never die out.

Forgiving does not always mean forgetting the past, it helps to remember while driving in a new city and making a wrong turn, remembering where the wrong turn was made, it will help take you back where you once where. Just remember not to take that wrong turn again.

 My first thought "what did I do or say wrong?"

One good thing about the older way of getting around by a map, while driving with a map having a friend with you will help guide to the next destination.

Now with a GPS if you miss programmed it and lose your directions, having a friend is a greater directional finder. 

Another thing about true friends try to understand without blaming first.

Never forget the reason you became friends, if that is always put first, concern will never be lost. Finding the first spark that enlightened being a friend, will help the flame to never die out.

Forgiving does not always mean forgetting the past, it helps to remember while driving in a new city and making a wrong turn, remembering where the wrong turn was made, it will help take you back where you once where. Just remember not to take that wrong turn again.

A close Friend

A true friend is someone who is there for you, even when they wold rather be somewhere else.

Another way to tell they would help search and find and assist to fix the problem, instead of saying you are the problem.friends are to help discuss, and there to listen.
Old problems and troubles are usually like a shadow, as you walk out of the darkness and towards the sunlight of your heart, the shadow will be behind you/
Looking back at the darkness will not help guide you to a bright road ahead.
I look around and still see ones that were there for me when I was distressed and lost, if it had bot been for all my family and friends, I would have not made it many times.
Then I found my dearest and best friend and really never be where I at today without her love and loyalty being by my side.
But it took the grace of the Friend to all mankind if ones let him to be. God will always be there for you when in need.
It always takes two to be able to stay friends, it never happens just by one individual, any relationship is created by the trust of the other one to. 
Your real friend will be there, if you never turn your back upon them first.

Good Memories

A friendship will never be lost, times just pushed aside.

Good memories will never be forgotten even if you try.

Let the more favorable past events, conquer the tough roads that was a challenge.

A right heart will build bridges where the contestable past was rugged and discordant.

Times I have cut myself at work, the first thing I hold it tight with the other hand on it to help slow down the bleeding. Then applying styptic, a bandage is placed upon it.

After wrapping it, if I consistently take off the dressing the bleeding continues.

The cut will not be infected if I keep pulling off the covering.

Never forgetting ones

There comes a time when ones will have to leave everything behind and start something new, but never forget the people who stood by their side, especially the ones who never gave up on them.

If it was not for all those by my side, I would have not had a life of success.

From my family to my friends and oversight from God, my life has been good.

Even with my health setbacks, from my youth beginning of my epilepsy unto now, life would have been very difficult without my wife, friends and all my family that have been there for me.

Majority of the ones reading this, has had knowledge of this situation I once had.

After brain surgery, and help of medicine and prayers, they are under control.

Efforts to turn your back on any one who may need your assistance, there might be a time where they will be the only one there for you.

Good memories will always be there, try not to push them away. Your mental hard drive will always store those times, you can reformat your life, but never try to delete the good times.

God never holds on to your past, but is always there when you need him.

The rest of these thoughts are in your decisions ahead.

It is very hard to try to describe a life of friendships on this particular site.

So I have been very intrigued with many thoughts in past few years until even today.

On my blog I have been able to bring forth a few thoughts, but they have been to scattered.

So with the blog and a continuous additions of more in my mind and heart, of what is a heart of love and charity is really about.

Who knows these writings may be just a prelude for more chapters to come.

Majority of you at one time or another has observed from family, friends from church, school and sport events when we played together, the various episodes that may have taken place.

That is why this blog of thoughts have been shared.

Additional thoughts are being added, as thoughts are put consistently on written form.

Happy Freedom we have

Happy 4th.

Just a thought”

This day is always a wonderful holiday.

Do I really reflect on the hardship and fear that the early Americans must have lived through day after day? Do we truly understand the hopes and dreams that lay secretly hidden away in the hearts of the people back then?

Am I thankful for the past leaders and soldiers that help create this nation of freedom, or the military lives that are trying to maintain this freedom today, I SHOULD BE, “THANK YOU”

And as our pledge of allegiance” we are still to be able to be blessed under God”

This day besides the felling for our nation, this day can be recognized for a day to start having a deliverance of troubles in my mind and heart. To keep minds in a confused state on a daily basis.

I can start by looking and seeing what may have caused this emotion of distress of my mind and heart.

Let me look at some beginnings and solutions to this hardship on myself and to others.

Freedom of mind and heart can create a life ones dream about. By looking and recalling how my life was consolidated when I may have confined ones heart, to have future objectives to achieve and prosper.

attitude or feelings can begin these burdens in life, by the way I have treated other individuals around me.

The way I can be for me to start do I have feelings towards my family, friends or myself, that can be turned around from one action of heart, by asking or accepting forgiveness.

Do I hold a grudge or keep someone in bondage due to my attitude of heart? Having pity upon yourself Is very easy, I have been through it many times in my walk of life. All that will due is to build up an anger inside that is tough to live with. All it will usually bring is tension with family and friends that may be reaching to you for comfort and compassion.

Do I realize what I may be doing to another person by holding on to these feelings of bitterness and judgment that I may have or may not caused or promoted, or past that that cannot be reconciled by myself or others that are still feeling trapped. Time disturbance of mind, can be like a weed growing up from-underneath us. Before it grows to big, you may find it difficult to pull it out due to the strength and depth, the beginning stage would to spray a substance recommended to take care or and removed and kill It inside the ground, then pull I out.

By living in a society that the thought is, I have a right to express a judgmental call, to give my opinion of controversy mind set or different beliefs. It is sad that those perceptions, will break up a developed loyalty of heart.

Having the ability to start this day with a new clean state and outlook will help to create better relations, with friends and family and God is the best independence anyone can have.

Only you can create the pace and goals of the rest of this life of determination and self-sufficiency, by the first effort that is brought out forth from the heart and mind.

One more direction is to have a heart to help others, you have and understanding of, or have know knowledge of.

Expression of a friendship towards an empty heart that may be searching to fill a desolate heart and soul.

Just by reaching out to talk, may be all they will need to lift them up. A thought of concern towards them.

The one friend that is always by our side, if we just call upon him, Christ our mediator to God our Friend.

The choice of friends you make, do not be short-changed b choosing personality over character.The good choices that have been changed through the years may have had rough times, but changes of heart and mind can be made to continue the path that it was first heading.And if you think how did I think of them as a friend, just remember there must have been good times together that you both considered friendship first, because good memories were made before the rough times entered.Last week I came out of the shop and found I had a tire going flat. So I took it down to have a friend look at it, and he found a nail in it. So all he did was removed the nail and patched it up. The tire has had no trouble after the nail was removed and the patch was made.I did not have to purchase a new tire, due to being able to look and find the problem and fix with a little search and work and friendship.Only you can make or change the rest of the story.