Continuing to grow adding strength

Life can be exciting and interesting, or it can be upsetting and disappointing.
Many cases we teach the child to respect and to treat others like we desire to be treated. Then as the parent we correct them when they do not follow by the way we told them to do. As they see the parent treat and disrespect their other parent, family, friends or others they do not even know the parent immediately tries to tell them their incorrect or wrongful thoughts and actions.
But if they see the parent disrespect their own parent, spouse, friends and even the child we wonder why they are not doing what I told them to.
It is when I express charity, mercy, honor, and forgiveness living by the rest of the “fruits of the spirit” even when disagreements come about with family, friends and others is being the example I long for my child to be.
It is like an open cut after I or another had the choice to pick up the sharp item the right wrong and getting a deep cut, then having it treated and as the skin was put back together with a bandage or another way to heal, it will never happen if I keep picking or pulling up the protective covering or stitches the original bond of the skin will never grow back to together like we desire and long for it to. When we know the original feelings and sensation that was felt when the first decision was made. As we even realizing the skin will never heal and scar we still do it the, it comes down to why? So next time I receive another cut within myself I will seek the reason or purpose my choice was made, was it for me or someone else I will blame for my own actions and faults. The only way I would desire a change from the past, is to keep my eyes on the goal I originally longed for. From the beginning the desire was to share my life by giving and sharing a heart filled to give with a life living like God desired to have a family to have. So if God is Love is why Christ was an example and expressed why the tree of the “Fruits of the Spirit” was originally created is for a heart and life to enjoy a family desire by giving and sharing my life to create a strong family so it can grow and continue to develop.

Source through Development

I have lived in locations where both has taken place. When we built our home we had an unfinished basement added to the plans. In preparation for the future both were wired into the main source of power outside the house, but both have their own separate breaker box. The other location we lived in there was a detached garage with additional framework for an apartment. The main source of power for both structures relied on the same power grid from the street grid. So when power was lost from the main grid both breaker boxes lost the same connection of power. Even when storms have damaged the cities electrical substations, everyone loses power that all are networked together, even when they may not be next to each other.

So when ones start building subdivisions or just two separate homes by each other on a same piece of property usually everyone has that same origin of electrical power lines.

In times of past natural disasters that has taken place and majority of damage is wide spread. It has been shown that the best way recovery came about is by everyone worked and had a part together. And as new development is created several cases the new structures are redesigned to stand against any new tragedies and misfortunes that comes about. 

Having hearts and minds that are seeking for some kind of peace within, strength only comes by strong connections and not through blockages of hearts but lives keeping the “Fruits of the Spirit” in guidance in a daily walk.

Trying with effort

Everything that irritates us about others, can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. Older mistakes are a great way to be educated. Disagreeing through prior information that has not been complete, may be the best time to research and seek while drawing closer to others. With a continual effort may be a goal to develop to reach a destination ones long for. Live through example is a great way to express the direction I hope for. I never gained knowledge when trying to prove ones incorrect, instead of listening for further comprehension with other perspectives may bring a greater enlightenment.  
Being approved or feeling you have to be is common idea, to desire or make ones feel they have to prove themselves to others that they are up to the level or where you feel or others desire you to be higher plain. By degrading ones and not being where you or others should be, you may come up to a time when you are looking up while asking to help realizing you need to be pulled up.

Security or insecurity, which one does what your mind dwells upon?

On a ball team playing with others the best way to really feel like you are jelling together or playing as one, is not thinking where your teammates are on the court or field. If everyone is thinking the same as a team the plays will cone together or each thought or idea is common, that is called “in one accord”.

That is how a winning team needs to be.

A good team no one has to prove to the others you are on their team, the feeling should be mutual without effort.

Just like family and friends each will be there for the others without a thought, it will be a desire through the heart to be there for the others. No questions asked, just emotional security with fervent love for the other.

No matter distance or disagreements between family, friends and teammates

you may try to forget, but the best if times will never be forgotten. Priorities is was is what changes any bad times of past, to building on the good times for the present and for the future.

That is my thought and desire of a “Complete Friendship”

Power with Might

An original friendship is like the sunlight, you can go from one side of the earth to the other the shine still comes from the same place. I have been from Hawaii to New York from Alaska to Florida the brightness still shines from that same source of power and illumination. No matter trying to forget good times they will always be there. If by death or a separation by locations, the good times will always remain with each one. The radiation of a first commitment with a friend with great memories will not be forgotten. The strength of a bond is like the waves in the water, watching the water hit the rock of a cliff the water will bounce back to the ocean. As hurricanes come on the shore we have seen devastation and damage. It tears down the man made structures but seldom has ability to destroy that original granite or solid rock. Stability will always stand with effort and desire thought the heart, mind and soul there is strength. And in rough times the heart and mind dwelling with love and charity still stands.
Family and friends are a help to keep a life solid. When someone close to your heart is no longer able to be with us, the good times are never able to be taken away.

Close people with care and love are built like strong structures, natural events can take a roof or outside pieces of the building. When the ground shakes it may cause damage within the building. But I have seen wind, rain destroy roofs, walls and the framework. I have seen earthquakes not take away the foundations but may have cracked the concrete. Anything that may disturb the house you live in, great memories of love will never be taken away. Prior love and emotions will never leave us. The current time you have with ones may have had times of trouble or disturbances, like a place you built and live in, you can remodel or change decor you still have the original house built for you. Managing a good landscaped home while making sure the weeds are being pulled out by the roots while the ground is moist from a clean fresh rain is easier to keep the yard, gardens from dying or  being controlled and taken over by weeds, poison ivy and such like.

Caring for trees and plants pruning and trimming them will help limbs and plants to grow and become a healthy plant to keep their color with strong limbs for continual growth. Pulling weeds out as soon as you see them start to come up from the ground is easier to bring forth others than letting the roots dig in deeper and spread out in the ground.

Keeping a homes landscape kept clean makes the outside looking great. But the inside of the house may be a disaster. 

When you are trying to sell your house you keep it presentable for anyone who may be searching a house just for them. And looking at an inside of a home that is clean and maintained is a easier way to make a sale.

As your life continues it’s journey while trying to enjoy the time you have to be with family and friends. There is nothing better than recalling enjoyable moments you shared with others. Memories are hard to beat when reminising good times together. of course with the times of joy, you do recall disappointing moments you may desire to have the ability to change the past. Many times the past is great education for the current times and future.

Wounds are difficult to heal if after the process of healing if the scab continues to be pulled off, then it takes time to start the process again.

 The deeper the cut the longer it may take to heal. As ones has had times of stress with others circumstances arise many times not even planning on it. Just like a bandage will help heal, comfort and pure emotions will help reassure there are open arms to catch you and lift you up. After you fall down while you are being helped up both have a grip using muscle to pull the other up.

A new start for the Year.

At the beginning of each new year the common history has been to have ambitions and enthusiasm to achieve from a list of intentions and targets to pursue for the year.What if we look back at other times when thoughts and determinations were a success, some were categorized under prosperity, to strengthen our daily life within and others come as our walk continues each day. Prosperity is usually from times past searching and questioning for understandings, while gaining new knowledge with further education to press farther. Other occasions it may help to think “what have I accomplished” instead of “what did I push aside or did not care about that may have been a need or obligations for others. When I have a lamp that no longer seems to work my first thought “need a new bulb.” Then I look and see it was unplugged so it lost it’s original connection from the power source. Another quick idea “oh I just need to replace it.” Then as I continue investigating for the reason why I see the the main power with was turned off not sending the power i needed. Many times severing the origin of activity or function of the heart is like trying to start a car without a strong or recharged battery or spark plug to ignite it. Having fresh ideas and open hearts while bonding will be like filling up the tank with new fuel to keep pressing forward with brighter expectations. God’s power can assist to be the strongest power of strength we can hope by desiring an understanding the path we seek. But the beginning starts when we put our trust and heart towards Him while treating others as we would desire to be approached and seen with a life and mind full of the “Fruits of the Spirit” as we walk or daily lives putting god and others first. That is the best way to be called a Friend or to create new relationships.

Pursuing with Victory in mind.

Accepting mistakes wither it is your own or another you are searching for, the correct answer may be in front of you and the wrong decision was made through one’s own choice.

Reaping the benefits or adopting incorrect perspectives, or not having complete understanding ideas from the past may be unsure but pursuing the correct or proper and receiving the answer was not judging history but learning from it.

Examples are those who take on and continue searching for the characteristics of God.

Other times going contrary may bring forth  greater expectations coming from a different time or paths in everyone’s journey.

History does not always have to be repeated, but continuing without maneuvering while watching the direction that is attended to reach, change may be key issues in life.

To finish this thought for this direction and path or thought on this site I am able to stay in touch with a friend we were on the same teams playing 3 different sports. We played different positions on each team, different coaches and players were with each one. The common denominator on each team was playing with the same mindset like the others “team work”. We came out successful 2 of the 3 teams we played on, and came short at the end of the other reasons, but every player had their own part on each one. But the heart of enjoyment of my part of playing on each team, was the bond and respect for each other and choices each player made was supported and important even if a misjudged play or decision was made. And in times of short comings or not having correct accuracy of thought for the win, the feelings to blame or dishonor ones efforts while trying their best, will take away feelings or emotions of playing as a team having the same expectations to be delivered or come to.

Being successful as a complete team was our mission of playing together.

Like having connections with others with the same goals in business is trusting each other holding them up and working together is the need for success.

The most important ones in our lives is the family from blood to marriage plus friends that feel and are the same in our lives. A heart for God is having love and faith for others, and individuals that have oversight in our daily lives can be a challenge. Forgiveness and mercy will provide a power and love in life, and will hang downfalls snd stumbling blocks that will not a longing to be drawn upon again. Just leave it at the cross.

Hope within All

Everyone has some hope in life. Here in Nashville there is a billboard that many dream about even myself,

it shows the total amount of the lottery you have a chance to win if you play. The common thought “What if I had the winning ticket?” Some proceed to purchase to take a chance to win. Some will purchase quick pick, others will use certain numbers they feel is lucky. The random thought by playing more with the continual numbers the greater the odds. If using the same numbers with the more tickets you purchase weekly the percentage is greater with change of numbers. With that same routine of numbers with each weekly drawing the odds never change. The chances may decrease with less numbers to match, but dreams will continue. 

Now let us change perspective and with the goal to achieve. With family and friends what type of a relationship would we have with each one if your all was given towards closer connections, without expecting anything monetary in return?

The desire is to become or to get closer with each individual with a feeling of family with loyalty in heart between each other. Having closer connections without monetary ideas but of heart is a true bond. As you reach out with desire for others will reap greater feelings and hope you will find. Even with friends or ones you listen to, you can always learn something from each one, even when you disagree with many ideas and thoughts. But friendships still develop and grow.

Feelings can be like a live hot wire through an electrical current towards others, it takes a electrical switch box to be on to keep a network of relationships alive. Many times circuit breakers or wires need to be upgraded, with the original wiring still is in tact. When 2 or more separate lights go off, there is usually a common denominator and reason. A lamp will not work without being plugged in.

Like my mothers recipes I enjoyed, I may need the precise ingredients to have the same taste to match. But many times it  is not taste the same without matching amount of ingredients . As once was, relationships can still be created if the original emotions and feelings to put the other one first with care to balance and reconnect the same feelings together. As you get older ones increase the thoughts of watching the ingredients and try to create a healthier recipe trying to keep close to a original taste. And even your taste buds and desires of foods change as you become older. But relationships will change some as you stay together the longer you are together. But the original feelings will grow and become stronger as you continue to learn and understand one another, as the minds change as older ideas and what was a necessity through talents and abilities no longer mean the same. But complete emotional hearts and minds become greater as you desire to give more and do more for ones, without them even asking. Strong bonds are expressed as ones think what ones need before they would express or even ask for something. 

Over all combinations of ideas and helps, while needs increase staying by ones just shows meanings of emotions of hearts, minds and feelings towards others you put ahead of yourself. As a Godly love and heart develops in all lives, searching to help and be concerned for others before yourself is all God is searching for. That will be what is desired to be and feel like a complete family.