Close Relationships

Loyalty has a deep and detailed definition.

Most have an individual who you desire or have a close connection to ones who may help maintain and help keep up parts in your house utilities or your vehicles. Several have individuals you have a bond or just a preference towards your personal care or health provider. I know places you live around food providers or other need’s locations you shop or eat at satisfies your household items or taste buds more than others.

Many times feelings towards sports teams has a past to present connection you may have grown up with, keeping up with the teams there may be a history with family or friends you watched the sport together with. Until the end of my Father’s life we still talked about the past to present sports teams we shared time watching together. 

As you live and enjoy faithful relationships with deep devotion with family and friends there are different emotions that you feel and have a closer bond with.

For years the teams I enjoy keeping up with and watching will have bad luck or just not a complete team to win, but I have still pulled for the teams due to history and past fullness of prior success.

With individuals you have spent your life or many hours with there has been a reason and desired the time shared.

As times moves on and time and maturity has increased usually knowledge will increase. Diversity of ideas and perspectives of thoughts change. But good history between ones never will change. Times friends have built homes next to each other using the same builder, with a piece of land divided between ones for a little space between each other.

Ones may desire the same floor plan but the external landscape or color views is different. Even on the inside usually the furniture and appliances will be different. No matter the visual differences the foundations of homes from the ground to the concrete supplier the builder used should be the same.

If original desires and direction between ones from long term beginning of friendships, only growth within hearts and minds should continue to develop towards a closer relationship.  

We are not able to become what we need to be, remaining who are and what we are. Having faith with humbleness and determination will help carry ones farther, with hope and willingness of mind. A life filled with charity and a heart of forgiveness love will provide strength and motivation to reach out and hold on to others you once were or are connected together with, helps create a stronger heart and soul for success. Goals to achieve and desires to fulfill wither it will be with God, family and friends guidance by the following the path through the “fruits of the spirit” will lead with a Godly spiritual power that will bind you to any other destination or plateau that will not be found through other resources without feeling the spirit and presence of God helping and leading you. Choice is a beginning, opportunity takes action, learning from prior mistakes of your own is a guide how to lead toward advancement having  greater possibilities ahead. Development and growth within only comes through choice and diversity with increase of understanding, though desire and longing with continual effort seeking with a Godly life with the power he provides and is given to us, leads to happiness with a realization and triumph over past setbacks and sufferings.     

Connection is important

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 There are many that you may be or have been close to and are not connected through social media. Starting a new year re-connecting with family and friends may be the best way to restart and develop new bonds instead of just recalling or having good memories with them. Creating relationships with new and old family and friends could be what will make a greater year to come.

Reconnections with care.

Have you ever seen a tree that has been struck by lightening? You may think it is dead and recovery will not happen, but with a little care it can be restored naturally with a little work.

Usually if the damaged and harmed limbs are trimmed back and not just cut off it will start a recovery process. Many trees with strong deep roots will come back to continue the growth from the outside impact.

Affected connections and bonds with family and friends can survive and maintain a development process to not be broken, destroyed or cut off. Close ties with short or long term relationships having deep and strong roots within each heart with effort can heal. Just like trees a little pruning and trimming with care, with ones through effort, forgiveness, mercy and charity will help reconcile and begin the process of disagreements and distractions can and will take place to become stronger than before. Preferring others first will always help keep strength within each individual. Many times different perspectives and trajectories can develop and broaden views with additional and continued understandings. After the limbs are taken care and disposed and moving them away from the tree is the normal routine to look kept up. In relationships would be accepting and releasing the past through forgiveness in hearts and minds is the start.

Change that takes place without our choice or opinions.

Over the weekend is 1 change that is a routine that is preformed with setting our clocks forward.

The time of the season or day of the calendar is not an option in households but a historical regimen or procedure by others. An outcome of a ball game or a development of a city you live in, is not in my control if I maintain my place residence. In these conclusions we may not enjoy or like the outcome but that is out of my hands from my decisions or desire. In many cases in my daily life events happen without foreknowledge or capability of happening’s that occur. But my life with options or choice in my daily cycle towards my health, management of funds and attitude of my heart how I treat others is all part of my life. How I determine or conclude to help or treat others is my own call what is in my heart and mind to live within my own choice. But choosing to live a life walking by the  ‘fruits of the spirit” or my attitude to judge or assist others, will be the best guide to follow and live a Godly life with love, peace and joy to enjoy with God, family and friends, or whosoever may come my way.   

Uplifting Efforts

Nostalgia- feelings and emotions towards good times
with individuals.
Many times we recall locations,
weather or foods our taste buds will usually be remembered first.
Memories usually become more enlightened as we are with people when we experienced times of pure feelings with enjoyment and strong emotions. And the effort each one provided as we were being served and the satisfaction of our hearts were being filled.
As a child growing up with family, friends and locations we were at, and the food we had usually are all recollected.
Was it really the ingredients in the food that pleased our taste buds or beauty of the places, or who we were experiencing the good times with?
As we really study we may think of the great scene of the sunset, but when I was on the west coast before each or the Hawaiian shores looking at the same sun and body of water were the same, just different times and location.
Now on those occasions we always desire to go back in that time, but in many occasions we may still have some around of the ones we enjoyed those memories with.
Others may have passed and no longer able to enjoy together, but reaching back at the same times can still bring great feelings. But do you first think of the times you may have tripped while walking , or the wrinkled clothes you were wearing out to dinner one time? Or do you look back at the times the clouds may have covered the sunshine for a time, or is it the ones you were with at that moment on a vacation.
The one thing we can retrieve, repeat and share are the feelings and effort from our hearts we gave towards these at the time we enjoyed it, and now express our emotions with others and the ones that are still around.
Like remembering a ball game you do not think of the scores, but who was on your team or watched the game with. And not the errors made in the game, but the success of the outcome while being with the ones you were and desired to be and share your time with.
Gaining strength within friends can be gained like exercising with resistant bands, the farther the ends are apart with a stronger grip, the muscles are continually building and being developed.

Times shared

Do you have memories of restaurants that you enjoyed while you were with family and friends?
Some of those restaurants have closed or in other
locations you no longer live by.
Reminiscing times in those restaurants with friends and the food you enjoyed.
As ones usually talk about those restaurants usually not about the walls that may need to be touched up with paint or the booths that may have a little tear in them, most of the time the discussion is about memories of the food displayed on their menu.
Everyone has their own favorite foods at all locations, many times it is common everyone has tastebuds that are totally different than others.
Majority of the times the restaurants you have appreciated may update or add to the menu, but the food is still favorable with the original choices that are still provided.
Memories of being with family and friends are always enjoyed when recalling the good times you shared together. Even with additional spices you may add to your own food may taste different to others, but the food was still created by the same recipe.

Lives that Shine

Solar eclipse will be caused by the moon passing between the earth and the sun preventing light on the earth. Times we may keep a darkness of good exciting prior events that will block a bright future ahead. Lunar eclipse can be like keeping a light of past  anger or harsh feelings in the present walk with others. Living in shadows of history with others will always cause a continual darkness that does not help growth and development between ones. Lives filled with hearts full of love, charity, mercy and forgiveness with bring a brighter and closer bond between ones. Creating new bonds and compounding closeness and desire with past connections while helping new stay together and become stronger. Longing for a greater walk with God, family and friends will take place as we put others first while keeping hearts full of love and charity and not vengeance and hate.  Beginning of relationships the desire to be a help ones by putting the other first, brings forth a longing for hearts filled by giving your all for the other.Great memories while keeping new and fresh bonds are best examples for the next generation to show how a to enjoy lives with others through lives filled with the “fruits of the spirit” is the best education expressing Godly lives. Feud from bitterness and anger will be just a harmful as a meteoroid clashing against the earth.