Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Relationships

( Open minded Relationships )
Friends may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel
The people we are in relationship with are always a mirror, reflecting our own beliefs, and simultaneously we are mirrors, reflecting their beliefs.
So... relationship is one of the most powerful tools for growth... If we look honestly at our relationships, we can see so much about how we have created them.
You cannot always control what goes on all around you. But you can always control what goes on inside your heart.
We are never more discontented with others than when we are discontented with ourselves.
Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.
To be successful, you have to be able to relate to people; they have to be satisfied with your personality to be able to do business with you and to build a relationship with mutual trust.
The most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are. And if our words and our actions come from superficial human relations techniques (the Personality Ethic) rather than from our own inner core (the Character Ethic), others will sense that duplicity. We simply won't be able to create and sustain the foundation necessary for effective interdependence
It takes a lot of experience of life to see why some relationships last and others do not. But we do not have to wait for a crisis to get an idea of the future of a particular relationship. Our behavior in little every incidents tells us a great deal.
There is no end to relationships. There may be the end of a particular relationship, but relationships can never end or be forgotten. To remember, is best to remember the best of times and qualities of ones.
The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree and to stay close to one another.

( Friendships )
I cannot even imagine where I would be today, if it would have not been for all of my friends who have given me their hearts full of joy.
Let's face it, friends make life a lot more fun.
"Friends are the most important part of your life. Treasure the tears, treasure the laughter, but most importantly, treasure the memories."
"A wise man remembers his friends at all times;
a fool, only when he has need of them."
The most important things in life are your friends, family, health, good humor and a positive attitude towards life. If you have these then you have everything!"
The friends who grew up with you deserve a special respect. The ones who stuck by you shoulder to shoulder, in a time where nothing was certain, all life lay ahead, and every road led home.
It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.
To betray a friend is worse than to be betrayed by one.
Friendship consists in forgetting what one gives, and remembering what one receives

( Friends & The meaning of life )
The people we are in relationship with are always a mirror, reflecting our own beliefs, and simultaneously we are mirrors, reflecting their beliefs.
So... relationship is one of the most powerful tools for growth... If we look honestly at our relationships, we can see so much about how we have created them.
Friends may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel
You cannot always control what goes on all around you. But you can always control what goes on inside your heart.
We are never more discontented with others than when we are discontented with ourselves.
Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.
To be successful, you have to be able to relate to people; they have to be satisfied with your personality to be able to do business with you and to build a relationship with mutual trust.
The most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are. And if our words and our actions come from superficial human relations techniques (the Personality Ethic) rather than from our own inner core (the Character Ethic), others will sense that duplicity. We simply won't be able to create and sustain the foundation necessary for effective interdependence
It takes a lot of experience of life to see why some relationships last and others do not. But we do not have to wait for a crisis to get an idea of the future of a particular relationship. Our behavior in little every incidents tells us a great deal.
There is no end to relationships. There may be the end of a particular relationship, but relationships can never end or be forgotten. To remember, is best to remember the best of times and qualities of ones.
The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree and to stay close to one another.