Sunday, May 15, 2011

What is really Love?

Love is a strong and emotional feeling for one. The first memories of Love I can recall, both of my Parents expressing their feelings, By telling me and by wrapping their arms around me with security through love. Even at an infant’s stage, the child’s mind can feel the expression of love from their parents. The feeling was created to give and to receive. The professing of love is detrimental to ones life. As a plant needs water, a person needs Love. Without water the plant will die. And a Person without love, or feels loved Mankind has no hope. In the case of suicide, the common denominator is lack of feeling Loved and Respected. Enjoyment is prompted by a loving feeling or caringfor ones andwhat you do. Satisfaction is a necessity of life. A common thought about a daily employment “I hate my Job”. What really creates that thought, a lack of desire or pleasure? Finding a job you enjoy or the feeling of appreciation is a need. The same goes for a Marriage. Finding a companion that will fulfill your needs and interests will be one of the main reasons to enjoy life. But finding your Creator is the most important way to feel your life is complete. When you get to the point when you do not feel like you can reach out and touch the one you need during tough times, who moved? You need to feel excitement and pleasure, when you walk into the doors of your Home, or you’re Church. “Am I really doing my job or keeping the trust the other one needsfor me to keep peace and fulfillment in our relationship”. In the feeling of love, respect is a key factor. Keeping or finding that 1st love, my memory was trying to spend all the time I could just to be with that person. There is no roomfor selfishness, sharing is a necessity. And not sharing the wrong thoughts of your mind, blaming the other person will get you nowhere. Cutting off ones hands during disagreements, could be detrimental when you need hand to help you up after falling down. During the thought of disagreement, start resolving the issue with a love and kindness. As a child is being raised, or the birthing of a newborn baby, Correction with care and mercy is a must. Love will lastforever, but discouragement and wrong correction will damage and scar ones permanently.