What is the common denominator between sports, politics, food and religion. -Opinions - many times there may not be complete answers or conclusions. Preferring others ideas and study, may help create an ability for mutual viewpoints and thoughts. Being a friend does not need proof when it is from the heart. Several occasions there is educating when looking from other perspectives.
In my life searching the past, severance has taken place on past conclusions, and times irrelevant or simple subjects not worthy for friendships to have ceased.
Forgiveness, charity and mercy will
assist and help prevent bitterness and hate to interfere with close ties and connections with others.
Strength within family, friends and God through the heart is a necessity
In our lives today.

Different perspectives towards agreement

Many times does life seems to be like an optical illusion, and your mind is not able to completely comprehend?  Perspectives or personalities can can be difficult to understand. But depending on what direction you start at, may be the problem or set back.

Usually disagreements will be the major cause of division or separation of minds and  hearts between family and friends. But several circumstances individual’s own trajectory is the “only way” causing the mind not to seek additional assistance or information of thoughts to what I may have missed, or can learn from.

Other opinions may be educational with an open mind. If each has a common goal of direction to achieve a greater destination to reach, it may prevail to listen. 

Presentation of new ideas beginning with a neutral direction with the same thought to gain and increase for further improvement, becomes a co-equal search that is beneficial for success.    

Checking my heart first

Taste comes through different soils providing fruits and vegetables with flavor.
Temperature changes from night to day combined with fresh moisture, assist to create a bitter or sweet aroma  and smell.
Just as the soil needs to be raked and turned over to help weeds from developing, a heart filled with charity, forgiveness and mercy will help keep a soul and  mind clean and fresh to help and share with others.
Effort and desire will help a garden and friendships to grow and evolve with different ones we run across. 
After the food is ripe and ready to harvest is what brings joy to be with others.
Being outside in the sunshine will brighten up only the area of the world that is facing it at that moment. The brightest of the love of God from your heart and life towards others, can lighten up the darkness in ones walk through life at any time of the 24 hr day. If your inside or outside in all darkness lives filled with the “fruits of the spirit” will still penetrate hearts through your voice and pure feelings of love through your heart and mind. No matter where you are with individuals around you or distance away, words that are written or the sound of your voice within your heart, pure emotion will still be heard or felt and can be understood.

Pure and clean.

Life is like water it can be calm as it moves, or with a powerful force it purifies while it is flowing. 

It forms to whatever it is gushing into an open channel, as it flows it becomes overwhelming to what may be holding it back that is not strong enough, and goes over or around or through it. When poured into a glass or pitcher it forms to what is holding or supporting it.

water can be purified through the speed of the current down from a mountain top of frozen atmospheres as it melts or thaws out.

When water stays stagnant impurity’s set in and becomes polluted and impure. 

Attitude of heart mind soul and spirit will be a guided towards destruction or peace.

Water is not physically able to be killed with a weapon, but without movement it will become poisoned or polluted.

Without a pure heart with charity and love life will not develop to share, but will destruct lives when the heart is not genuine towards others. Authentic true emotions will create development and growth with others.

Achieving the goals in accord.

On the average most start the new year preparing to achieve new expectations, goals in search for new horizons.
Others may be planning to exchange vows for the first time for their future, ones may be renewing past commitments and dreams for feelings of stronger bonds together. The thought towards obligations and financial freedom will bring a uplifting excitement. A vision of remodeling or recreating a new look in the family’s dwelling place. “I wish we would have, why did we, now we will” is always in the minds. Other objectives updating the inside and outward appearance of ones living quarters.
Of course health is a priority and the key objective. It seems to be easier for others, but a strong commitment with desire and patience is the path to take. It may not be simple or easy but with determination and dedication with endurance to feel great and enthused to continue on.
After starting the road with consistency and thrill for victory to reach that plateau, strength will bring more enjoyment to continue on in life. Reestablishing the old for that new look of the home as additions that may take place, checking the lines of water and electrical increase is a need for safety purposes. With our lives the most important priorities is the balance of the heart and mind towards others with God leading the way. His power he can fulfill in ones lives can help surmount all hurdles and stumbling that may happen without any foreknowledge. A life being lead by the “fruits of the spirit” will be the greatest way to compete with all challenges before us. Reconciliations will be achieved through putting others first, you would be amazed how life feels when find that original enjoyment that was once there, by a heart that is mutually filled with lives with forgiveness, love charity and patience to lead the way in all lives. But to reach any or all destinations current and future in life having the right mind and heart for God and others first will be the greatest goal to accomplish and maintain.

Times in life towards our family and friends it may at times sounds we are speaking in many perspectives. Just as languages and dialects there is diversity. When reading a same book many words will be pronounced differently due to locations we are raised in.

When family and friends live to help and be there for others there will always be different ideas and perspectives even when working or seeking towards the same goals to achieve. 

Arguments, divisions and separations come about as respect is not considered  from different perspectives and ideas. Having a heart with and open mind additional education may come about.

God's real goal in the garden was to follow his will and direction. His desire for Adam to eat from the tree of life would bring about the heart of God to lead us. Living by the "fruits of the spirit"

is to strengthen hearts and lives to grow and develop close lives with others, harmony and peace will be the best way to have family and friends grow and develop greater relationships. 

Listening to bands and orchestras the are reading from the same sheet music to be unified.  Each instrument has has different sounds, shapes and sizes. Different materials created will and make horns or other instruments sound different. When instruments are all tuned in together the notes different quality of sound comes forth but in harmony. Playing any type of music each instrument while playing the same song, ones will have different parts to play. When a song is played in one accord is comes forth as it was created to be. Life is easier and enjoyable as lives search towards the same options of choice will lead towards close relationships. 

A little effort is all it takes.

From family to friends true emotions are felt through hugs and hand shakes. Many occasions goods thoughts and words delivered to ones from the heart is just as strong of a connection as standing right next to them. “Reach out and touch someone” was at a time technology was not as far along asa today. But now staying in touch can is easier to be there for ones, occasionally that is all it takes is good words from the heart to others may be all they need to feel supported and lifted up.