LIVING IN ANGER & BITTERNESS
( New thought )
When a computer has a virus, after infection has set in,
the only way to correct the problem, is to reformat the computer.
Next in to re-install all the new data,
After finding where the virus came from, then you know what site
to avoid when searching for new data.
I know when my computer became infected, I found out how important
it is to have back-up files of all you data installed in your computer.
When the infection took place, after all the frustration I felt.
It would have been just so simple to just chuck the whole thing,
But the whole computer was not the problem, it was just a certain
internal section that was damaged.
After re-pairing the hard drive, re-installing all my files,
my computer then worked properly.
I learned through that ordeal, that I needed a better anti-virus
program that would protect the computer.
Just disconnecting from the source that I received it through,
I just protected my computer from any future problems.
It was not the Internet provider, that the problem was from.
It was my fault for not being better protected.
I know this analogy, that through the help of My shepherd,
working through my friends, I will be able to enjoy my life
with all my family and friends in peace.
Defining the thought of the reformatting my hard drive ( life ),
with the assistance of the new program (attitude).
My life to have peace will have to take place through
forgiveness, kindness and respect in love.
“Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. But anger is like fire. It burns it all clean.”
Holding on to anger is like holding on to a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at s“It were better to be of no church, than to be bitter for any” William Pennomeone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Parental expressions of Love
Love that was and is being expressed through your, Parents, Grand parents, Spouse, Siblings, Family & friends.
The most important single ingredient in raising happy and successful children is the amount of love they receive from their parents. Children need love like flowers need sunshine and rain.
You can never give a child too much love. The continuous flow of love and approval from a parent to a child is the child’s psychological lifeline to emotional and physical health. Almost all problems with children stem back to the child’s perception of not being fully loved and accepted by his or her parents.
Lack of love whether it’s real or imagined by the child can have serious consequences.
It can lead to physical, mental and emotional damage that can have long-term if not permanent negative consequences on the entire life of the child. In fact most child psychologists and therapists agree that love deprivation is the most serious problem a child can suffer during his or her formative years.
The starting point of raising happy and successful children is to give them a continuous unbroken flow of unconditional love and acceptance. A parent needs to always make it clear to his or her child that nothing the child does could ever cause him or her to love the child less than 100 percent.
Children reinvent your world for you.
Each day of our lives we make deposits in the memory banks of our children.
“We do not remember days, we remember moments. The richness of life lies in memories we need to forget, and the ones we need to remember.
My goal is to refresh the future not to rehash the past,
“Memory is a way of holding on to the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.”
( Dobson ) " Stop trying to perfect your children, but keep trying to perfect your relationship with them."
My time as a parent, is not just to be a guide for the future, but a friend for rough times in life to come.
To be an example to show them how to be that good parent for their future experiences of life.
Parents exist to teach the child, but also they must learn what the child has to teach them, and the child has a very great deal to teach them.
"The best inheritance a parent can give his children is a few minutes of his time each day."
There is no friendship, no love, like the love of the parent for their child."
The most important single ingredient in raising happy and successful children is the amount of love they receive from their parents. Children need love like flowers need sunshine and rain.
You can never give a child too much love. The continuous flow of love and approval from a parent to a child is the child’s psychological lifeline to emotional and physical health. Almost all problems with children stem back to the child’s perception of not being fully loved and accepted by his or her parents.
Lack of love whether it’s real or imagined by the child can have serious consequences.
It can lead to physical, mental and emotional damage that can have long-term if not permanent negative consequences on the entire life of the child. In fact most child psychologists and therapists agree that love deprivation is the most serious problem a child can suffer during his or her formative years.
The starting point of raising happy and successful children is to give them a continuous unbroken flow of unconditional love and acceptance. A parent needs to always make it clear to his or her child that nothing the child does could ever cause him or her to love the child less than 100 percent.
Children reinvent your world for you.
Each day of our lives we make deposits in the memory banks of our children.
“We do not remember days, we remember moments. The richness of life lies in memories we need to forget, and the ones we need to remember.
My goal is to refresh the future not to rehash the past,
“Memory is a way of holding on to the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.”
( Dobson ) " Stop trying to perfect your children, but keep trying to perfect your relationship with them."
My time as a parent, is not just to be a guide for the future, but a friend for rough times in life to come.
To be an example to show them how to be that good parent for their future experiences of life.
Parents exist to teach the child, but also they must learn what the child has to teach them, and the child has a very great deal to teach them.
"The best inheritance a parent can give his children is a few minutes of his time each day."
There is no friendship, no love, like the love of the parent for their child."
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