Our destiny

Our destiny changes with our thought; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do, when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire
Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice: It is not a thing to be waited for; it is a thing to be achieved.
A Successful future is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person you become.
An example is often a deceptive mirror, and the order of destiny, so troubling to our thoughts, is not always found written in things past.
As long as we are persistence in our pursuit of our deepest destiny, we will continue to grow. We cannot choose the day or time when we will fully bloom. It happens in its own time.
Children... are our legacy. Our responsibility. They are our destiny and we are theirs. The extent to which we fail as parents, we fail as God's children.
Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
Everything happens for a reason. I'm used to it, I prepare for it. Like I say, at the end of the day, those in charge of their own destiny are going to do what's rights for them and their family.\
I believe that you control your destiny, that you can be what you want to be. You can also stop and say, No, I won't do it, I won't behave his way anymore. I'm lonely and I need people around me, maybe I have to change my methods of behaving and then you do it.
If you create an act, you create a habit. If you create a habit, you create a character. If you create a character, you create a destiny.
Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone-we find it with another.
Our destiny changes with our thought; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do, when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire
.The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
The way of the Creative works through change and transformation, so that each thing receives its true nature and destiny and comes into permanent accord with the Great Harmony: this is what furthers and what perseveres.
There is only one thing which can master the perplexed stuff of epic material into unity; and that is, an ability to see in particular human experience some significant symbolism of man's general destiny.

Disagreeing Respectfully

A disagreement with your Wife, family or friends, is a feeling that is easy and common to have.

If you have learned how to disagree without being disagreeable, then you have discovered the secret of getting along - whether it be business, family and friendships, or life itself.

To disagree, one doesn't have to be disagreeable.
We may disagree on some things, but we can do so without being disagreeable.

The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree, but still hold hands.
Be willing to listen.

Begin with a commitment to listen - be open minded and consider other points of view. Listen regardless of whether you agree or disagree with what's said. Resist the urge to jump to conclusions; be defensive or be argumentative with the speaker.

Be patient, we often interrupt because we are afraid we will forget our point(s). Do not interrupt allow the speaker to finish what she/he has to say. Don't finish the speaker's sentences because you think they're taking too long to get to the point. Focus on what is being said instead of what you think is going to be said.

Leaders who win the respect of others are the ones who deliver more than they promise, not the ones who promise more than they can deliver.”

Until we respect ourselves how can we respect someone else?
If you feel that you’re not respected, start respecting others.

To finalize if I believe I am really right, am I living what I want ones to believe in. Am I treating others as I want to be treated?
I am really trying myself.