Monday, September 2, 2019

Taking responsibility


Common thought “is always someone else’s fault” Blaming others is easy for projects or ideas not coming out as you think or thought it should have been while the choice was yours.
To turn and blame others or blaming a manufacturer for a flashlight that will not work, then finding out the batteries were not in or they were not put in properly.
Another scenario is to blame shoe salesmen thinking they gave you the wrong shoes because they keep coming off, then realizing you are not tying the shoes right, or they were laced incorrectly. Mistakes are easy to be made, blaming your catcher after you threw a wild pitch or forgetting the correct sign.
In most cases as the saying is “hindsight is 20-20.
If Accepting mistakes wither it is your own or another you are searching for, the correct answer may be in front of you and the wrong decision was made by your own choice.
Reaping the benefits or adopting the incorrect ideas from the past may be helpful, by pursuing the correct or proper and receiving the answer was not judging history but learning from it.
History does not always have to be repeated, but continuing without maneuvering while watching the direction that is attended to reach, change is the key issue.

To finish this train of thought for the direction and path on this site I am able to stay in touch with a friend we were on the same teams in 3 different sports. We played different positions on each team different coaches and players had a part on each one. The common denominator on each team was playing with the same mindset like the the others “team work”. We came out successful 2 of the 3 teams and came short at the end of different seasons, but everyone had their own part on each team. But the heart of enjoyment of my part of playing on each team, was the bond and respect for each other and choices each player made was supported and backed up even if a misjudged play or decision made. It was a team effort no matter the outcome.
Like connections with others the same goals in business is trusting each other holding them up and working together is the need for success.
The most important ones in our lives is the family from blood to friends that feel and are the same in our lives. I just investigated through a company to seek my past blood line or genealogy of prior individuals in history.
It was interesting from the past but thinking of current family and friends my ambitions is to become stronger and closer with others while joining to reach out together. To become stronger takes effort desire and longevity to become unified. As the natural blood flows through the body at times scars and scabs that may not be healed up, while scratching them may cause some excess bleeding or fluid to flow out of the wound, but with bandage and a form of septic or ointment healing with start to take place. Before medical treatment was created nature had other means of healing assistance. an aloe plant is a pure form for a healing process to occur. The impact on a open sore with aloe will preform a process to clean and help to prevent harmful bacteria from entering into the body.
Though aloe an antioxidant and other natural plants and herbs can help the physical sores to heal, the attitude of the heart will be able to cause emotions and feelings to come to pass a mental, emotional or spiritual type of hurt and pain.  
Affection and concern will bring feelings to help and assist when ones are in need. Just like the use of a bandage tight around a cut it will help to stop the flow of our natural fluids within to be lost. Just like skin can be separated, hearts and true feelings can be the same. Having concern and affections towards ones that are close and well established in lives deep within, the bandage of forgiveness and feelings of charity will provide a true and complete healing that can never cause hardships as long as old wounds are not reopened and apart.
Just like when I hit my hand or foot by a quick painful object, the other hand reaches out to help supply the other damaged parts of the body. To reach out with emotions of concern and help will to help healing process to take place brings peace within hearts and minds. Many times my opinions can hold back or slow down problems rom healing, but assisting with a clean heart to reap benefit for clear ideas to share.