Am I there to Help ones?

Open your eyes look within your heart. are you perplexed, satisfied or happy with your walk in life.

Everyone before you has been an example, what to do and what not to do.

Learning by my mistakes is a must, learning by others, is an assistance.

Being an example will bring peace of mind.

Is my progression of life being lead by my mind of selfishness, or living through a heart of charity and concern?

The best way to display insecurity, is by showing others their shortcomings.

Being there for others,will be a benefit for success. Having mercy will express sincerity towards others.

Healthy life creates Strength

Healthy life creates strength

If you look back at your friends and your friendships have become stronger, then your original identity of a friend is unique and genuine.
If I would look back and recall friends I no longer see and are still around, could that tell me that I have changed from my true feelings of what a friend is all about.The character of a friend will not alter if I try to continue that special relationship to be there for them, instead of the feeling they should be there for me.
That idea will only be a life led by selfishness, and in turn leads to disconnection for future good memories.
Any affiliations or close relationships will never struggle, if the feeling is to put the other first. The authentic bond will never depart but become more secure and solid. There are times reconciliation is a need.
Perspectives will never change as long as you continue to look for greater expectations for each other.
That could be considered as 20 20 vision of friendships for a lifetime of enjoyment.That idea will only be a life led by selfishness, and in turn leads to disconnection for future good memories.Any affiliations or close relationships will never struggle, if the feeling is to put the other first. The authentic bond will never depart but become more secure and solid. There are times reconciliation is a need.Perspectives will never change as long as you continue to look for greater expectations for each other.That could be considered as 20 20 vision of friendships for a lifetime of enjoyment.That idea will only be a life led by selfishness, and in turn leads to disconnection for future good memories.Any affiliations or close relationships will never struggle, if the feeling is to put the other first. The authentic bond will never depart but become more secure and solid. There are times reconciliation is a need.Perspectives will never change as long as you continue to look for greater expectations for each other.That could be considered as 20 20 vision of friendships for a lifetime of enjoyment.


A creative individual is motivated by the desire to achieve, not by the desire to beat or destroy others. The right heart towards others is the best way to reach your expectations.

Mind of man

When man leads by his decision the destination is unknown, but following the path that Christ left for man will lead us to God's plan in the garden.

Guidance by the carnal mind and heart, will be a life directed without charity and love.

As man lives by the fruits of the spirit, achieving God's plan for mankind will have less difficulties.

1st reason for your Friendship

One thing about true friends try to understand without blaming first.

Never forget the reason you became friends, if that is always put first, concern will never be lost. Finding the first spark that enlightened being a friend, will help the flame to never die out.

Forgiving does not always mean forgetting the past, it helps to remember while driving in a new city and making a wrong turn, remembering where the wrong turn was made, it will help take you back where you once where. Just remember not to take that wrong turn again.

 My first thought "what did I do or say wrong?"

One good thing about the older way of getting around by a map, while driving with a map having a friend with you will help guide to the next destination.

Now with a GPS if you miss programmed it and lose your directions, having a friend is a greater directional finder. 

Another thing about true friends try to understand without blaming first.

Never forget the reason you became friends, if that is always put first, concern will never be lost. Finding the first spark that enlightened being a friend, will help the flame to never die out.

Forgiving does not always mean forgetting the past, it helps to remember while driving in a new city and making a wrong turn, remembering where the wrong turn was made, it will help take you back where you once where. Just remember not to take that wrong turn again.

A close Friend

A true friend is someone who is there for you, even when they wold rather be somewhere else.

Another way to tell they would help search and find and assist to fix the problem, instead of saying you are the problem.friends are to help discuss, and there to listen.
Old problems and troubles are usually like a shadow, as you walk out of the darkness and towards the sunlight of your heart, the shadow will be behind you/
Looking back at the darkness will not help guide you to a bright road ahead.
I look around and still see ones that were there for me when I was distressed and lost, if it had bot been for all my family and friends, I would have not made it many times.
Then I found my dearest and best friend and really never be where I at today without her love and loyalty being by my side.
But it took the grace of the Friend to all mankind if ones let him to be. God will always be there for you when in need.
It always takes two to be able to stay friends, it never happens just by one individual, any relationship is created by the trust of the other one to. 
Your real friend will be there, if you never turn your back upon them first.

Good Memories

A friendship will never be lost, times just pushed aside.

Good memories will never be forgotten even if you try.

Let the more favorable past events, conquer the tough roads that was a challenge.

A right heart will build bridges where the contestable past was rugged and discordant.

Times I have cut myself at work, the first thing I hold it tight with the other hand on it to help slow down the bleeding. Then applying styptic, a bandage is placed upon it.

After wrapping it, if I consistently take off the dressing the bleeding continues.

The cut will not be infected if I keep pulling off the covering.

Never forgetting ones

There comes a time when ones will have to leave everything behind and start something new, but never forget the people who stood by their side, especially the ones who never gave up on them.

If it was not for all those by my side, I would have not had a life of success.

From my family to my friends and oversight from God, my life has been good.

Even with my health setbacks, from my youth beginning of my epilepsy unto now, life would have been very difficult without my wife, friends and all my family that have been there for me.

Majority of the ones reading this, has had knowledge of this situation I once had.

After brain surgery, and help of medicine and prayers, they are under control.

Efforts to turn your back on any one who may need your assistance, there might be a time where they will be the only one there for you.

Good memories will always be there, try not to push them away. Your mental hard drive will always store those times, you can reformat your life, but never try to delete the good times.

God never holds on to your past, but is always there when you need him.

The rest of these thoughts are in your decisions ahead.

It is very hard to try to describe a life of friendships on this particular site.

So I have been very intrigued with many thoughts in past few years until even today.

On my blog I have been able to bring forth a few thoughts, but they have been to scattered.

So with the blog and a continuous additions of more in my mind and heart, of what is a heart of love and charity is really about.

Who knows these writings may be just a prelude for more chapters to come.

Majority of you at one time or another has observed from family, friends from church, school and sport events when we played together, the various episodes that may have taken place.

That is why this blog of thoughts have been shared.

Additional thoughts are being added, as thoughts are put consistently on written form.