Sunday, November 8, 2009

Parental expressions of Love

Love that was and is being expressed through your, Parents, Grand parents, Spouse, Siblings, Family & friends.
The most important single ingredient in raising happy and successful children is the amount of love they receive from their parents. Children need love like flowers need sunshine and rain.
You can never give a child too much love. The continuous flow of love and approval from a parent to a child is the child’s psychological lifeline to emotional and physical health. Almost all problems with children stem back to the child’s perception of not being fully loved and accepted by his or her parents.
Lack of love whether it’s real or imagined by the child can have serious consequences.
It can lead to physical, mental and emotional damage that can have long-term if not permanent negative consequences on the entire life of the child. In fact most child psychologists and therapists agree that love deprivation is the most serious problem a child can suffer during his or her formative years.
The starting point of raising happy and successful children is to give them a continuous unbroken flow of unconditional love and acceptance. A parent needs to always make it clear to his or her child that nothing the child does could ever cause him or her to love the child less than 100 percent.
Children reinvent your world for you.
Each day of our lives we make deposits in the memory banks of our children.
“We do not remember days, we remember moments. The richness of life lies in memories we need to forget, and the ones we need to remember.
My goal is to refresh the future not to rehash the past,
“Memory is a way of holding on to the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.”
( Dobson ) " Stop trying to perfect your children, but keep trying to perfect your relationship with them."

My time as a parent, is not just to be a guide for the future, but a friend for rough times in life to come.
To be an example to show them how to be that good parent for their future experiences of life.
Parents exist to teach the child, but also they must learn what the child has to teach them, and the child has a very great deal to teach them.
"The best inheritance a parent can give his children is a few minutes of his time each day."
There is no friendship, no love, like the love of the parent for their child."

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