The Value of holding strong.

We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by current responsibilities and all that are not seen yet. Lives of mercy, charity, with feelings and the heart of forgiveness will create a unstoppable growth in all relationships.  

In the long run, we create and strengthen lives in our relationships while we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we pass. The choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility. The best way to resolve mistakes and setbacks, is being accountable of our own actions, without trying to find ways to justify the history that has been left behind. While climbing a steep mountain, it will be easier to lose balance while looking behind as we try to seek and press forward. Just keep your eyes on the sight we are aiming for as we strive to reach the top of the pursuit of happiness, joy and success we long for. As you progress then try to throw stones may just be the ones that your hand is reaching for to keep balance and grip in life as you continue to climb higher. Staying strong will help for you to have the ability and endurance to reach out and help to brace ones journey, while ones struggle as they press through life. If your life is is just being held with rope as you move along with ones, if you then try to cut that resource that holds the only possession of endurance and stability, that will help you lose that grasp in life to carry and press on. The decision is yours. In my life I thought my life was running short of rope or connection with others, then I studied and recalled the only way I made it to now, was when I continued to tie on to secure stable friendships as I was seeking or support. And being fortunate to have family, friends and God to pull me up when I was down. A grip from others that hold on to the stability of relationships, is the only way to stay firm and feel safe. Many times the best move for that strength from others is by not letting go or releasing the original connections from strong prior fellowships. You can always make the effort and reach out to gain from others that gave you a feeling of comfort and love.