Friday, July 9, 2010

What is the Path?

Every day of our lives, there is a road ahead of us.
Whether it is rough or smooth, straight or at an angle
Uphill or downhill, life is tough.
As you develop into adulthood, life goes on faster.
You may be tested and tried or prosperous and successful.
Whatever comes your way, life is exciting and interesting.
Every day you wake up, you never know what is in store for you.
Turmoil. What is the definition?
“Anything that barricades us from success or happiness is called
the turmoil of life.”
On your life’s journey, we will come across pitfalls and stumbling blocks.
On roads you thought you knew where you were going, suddenly you came up to a dead end.
Who provided the directions?
Who did you put your trust in?
When times become rough, you will usually find or look for a friend.
There is always one friend who will never leave you.
He will always give you a chance to put your trust in him.
All you have to do is open up your heart and let him in.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

The Devotion towards Family.

The Family Unity needs to feel Passion and Enmity towards one another.
Your Parents express their Love by giving, time, needs, and support
for development.
Siblings are there for companionship. through good times, and through tough times of life.
During your adolescence your family is so important for calming problems that Occur in your life.
I was fortunate to have 3 sisters that were there for me.
Having one older, and 2 younger, all my stages of development I had someone
to lean upon.
So in a capsule form, Love in giving time is a necessity. and Love it is a demand for growth.
To be able to practice showing expressions of feelings, is a need.
Loyalty is an indication of being faithful, and to be able to put confidence in.
I have one son, he was my only child. Sometimes being a only child could have draw backs.
In this case I was able to have a connection with him that replaced brothers that neither one of us had.
A devoted family is motivation to move on with life.
At the same time you wish time could slow down, so you can have more time to enjoy.
Even if you did not have any children or siblings, you have more time to spend with a Spouse,family or friends.
Sometimes you think of a bond, is something that holds together.
But a bond can be something to help release good feelings you have, and to express Compassionate affection towards others.
Union- group with shared interest or feelings. A same goal to achieve.
Devoted or fervid bonding time is necessary for happiness.
My life is devoted to my Wife, Son and all my Friends and Family.
That is what we were created for, A bond with God and all his family.

Monday, June 7, 2010

What Lies Within

What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us.
Looking behind will just be stumbling blocks for the path ahead.
Change is to be made for trying to correct any past failures or faults. Fearing the change will never let me get ahead.
Just like finances, the only way to get ahead financially is correcting my wrong ways of mishandling of my funds. Seeing what is more important to spend my money on.
In the case of finances, the only way to get ahead financially is correcting my wrong ways of mishandling of my funds. Seeing what is more important to spend my money on.
The pathways and success of my Forefathers, should be an easy guide to live by.
Studying the mistakes from ancestors, should show me the trail not to follow.
The past should be the influence in my life.
Wrong discussions are easy to condemn, when I did not have to give or come up with the answer.

Friday, May 28, 2010

Our destiny

Our destiny changes with our thought; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do, when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire
Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice: It is not a thing to be waited for; it is a thing to be achieved.
A Successful future is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person you become.
An example is often a deceptive mirror, and the order of destiny, so troubling to our thoughts, is not always found written in things past.
As long as we are persistence in our pursuit of our deepest destiny, we will continue to grow. We cannot choose the day or time when we will fully bloom. It happens in its own time.
Children... are our legacy. Our responsibility. They are our destiny and we are theirs. The extent to which we fail as parents, we fail as God's children.
Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
Everything happens for a reason. I'm used to it, I prepare for it. Like I say, at the end of the day, those in charge of their own destiny are going to do what's rights for them and their family.\
I believe that you control your destiny, that you can be what you want to be. You can also stop and say, No, I won't do it, I won't behave his way anymore. I'm lonely and I need people around me, maybe I have to change my methods of behaving and then you do it.
If you create an act, you create a habit. If you create a habit, you create a character. If you create a character, you create a destiny.
Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone-we find it with another.
Our destiny changes with our thought; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do, when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire
.The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
The way of the Creative works through change and transformation, so that each thing receives its true nature and destiny and comes into permanent accord with the Great Harmony: this is what furthers and what perseveres.
There is only one thing which can master the perplexed stuff of epic material into unity; and that is, an ability to see in particular human experience some significant symbolism of man's general destiny.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Disagreeing Respectfully

A disagreement with your Wife, family or friends, is a feeling that is easy and common to have.

If you have learned how to disagree without being disagreeable, then you have discovered the secret of getting along - whether it be business, family and friendships, or life itself.

To disagree, one doesn't have to be disagreeable.
We may disagree on some things, but we can do so without being disagreeable.

The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree, but still hold hands.
Be willing to listen.

Begin with a commitment to listen - be open minded and consider other points of view. Listen regardless of whether you agree or disagree with what's said. Resist the urge to jump to conclusions; be defensive or be argumentative with the speaker.

Be patient, we often interrupt because we are afraid we will forget our point(s). Do not interrupt allow the speaker to finish what she/he has to say. Don't finish the speaker's sentences because you think they're taking too long to get to the point. Focus on what is being said instead of what you think is going to be said.

Leaders who win the respect of others are the ones who deliver more than they promise, not the ones who promise more than they can deliver.”

Until we respect ourselves how can we respect someone else?
If you feel that you’re not respected, start respecting others.

To finalize if I believe I am really right, am I living what I want ones to believe in. Am I treating others as I want to be treated?
I am really trying myself.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Peace in our lives.

The way to have peace is if we let go of wanting to change the past and wanting to control the future. Like footprints in the sand, you can see where you came from,
But when the powerful water of the ocean "(or pur water of life)" washes over the sand, looking back they are all washed away. The water of life is a cover over us, just like it washes over the land of this earthly dwelling place.

Working in one accord


Working together is a two way structure,
When working for one common cause, should have one mind for success.
In the case of “Microsoft” it was established with a common goal to be a prosperous company.
This company started with two different view points for a thriving business.
Both of these owners had there own ideas and functions for their corporation to prosper.
The original operating system was dos.
Dos was appropriate and a demand for its time.
As computers became faster and more powerful, systems needed to be improved.
Due to the melioration of the pc, the prototype had not altered the original structure.
All the modifications that has taken place, has only amended the first pc.
The quality of the computer has improved.
When computers came on the scene, most operators were in college or high school.
While education has been provided, the knowledge and intellect has broadened.
The age of computer operators has continued to become younger.
As the simplifications and adjustments have been preformed, the use of computers has increased.
The power and capability of the computer is being used to a capacity that never thought of.
This helpful invention has been maximized to a degree which the world is continuing to develop around it, and could not continue without it.
God’s church is a place where ones can come into to be safe, feel loved and at peace.
It will be a refuge for families and even the homeless to feel secure.
The point of this thought is that ones can live in a peaceful environment in our homes, work or in our religious dwelling places.
Wherever we dwell in our daily walk, a life of peace and love and charity, will help your life to enjoy a happy and joyful dwelling place.