Trying with effort

Everything that irritates us about others, can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. Older mistakes are a great way to be educated. Disagreeing through prior information that has not been complete, may be the best time to research and seek while drawing closer to others. With a continual effort may be a goal to develop to reach a destination ones long for. Live through example is a great way to express the direction I hope for. I never gained knowledge when trying to prove ones incorrect, instead of listening for further comprehension with other perspectives may bring a greater enlightenment.  
Being approved or feeling you have to be is common idea, to desire or make ones feel they have to prove themselves to others that they are up to the level or where you feel or others desire you to be higher plain. By degrading ones and not being where you or others should be, you may come up to a time when you are looking up while asking to help realizing you need to be pulled up.

Security or insecurity, which one does what your mind dwells upon?

On a ball team playing with others the best way to really feel like you are jelling together or playing as one, is not thinking where your teammates are on the court or field. If everyone is thinking the same as a team the plays will cone together or each thought or idea is common, that is called “in one accord”.

That is how a winning team needs to be.

A good team no one has to prove to the others you are on their team, the feeling should be mutual without effort.

Just like family and friends each will be there for the others without a thought, it will be a desire through the heart to be there for the others. No questions asked, just emotional security with fervent love for the other.

No matter distance or disagreements between family, friends and teammates

you may try to forget, but the best if times will never be forgotten. Priorities is was is what changes any bad times of past, to building on the good times for the present and for the future.

That is my thought and desire of a “Complete Friendship”

Power with Might

An original friendship is like the sunlight, you can go from one side of the earth to the other the shine still comes from the same place. I have been from Hawaii to New York from Alaska to Florida the brightness still shines from that same source of power and illumination. No matter trying to forget good times they will always be there. If by death or a separation by locations, the good times will always remain with each one. The radiation of a first commitment with a friend with great memories will not be forgotten. The strength of a bond is like the waves in the water, watching the water hit the rock of a cliff the water will bounce back to the ocean. As hurricanes come on the shore we have seen devastation and damage. It tears down the man made structures but seldom has ability to destroy that original granite or solid rock. Stability will always stand with effort and desire thought the heart, mind and soul there is strength. And in rough times the heart and mind dwelling with love and charity still stands.
Family and friends are a help to keep a life solid. When someone close to your heart is no longer able to be with us, the good times are never able to be taken away.

Close people with care and love are built like strong structures, natural events can take a roof or outside pieces of the building. When the ground shakes it may cause damage within the building. But I have seen wind, rain destroy roofs, walls and the framework. I have seen earthquakes not take away the foundations but may have cracked the concrete. Anything that may disturb the house you live in, great memories of love will never be taken away. Prior love and emotions will never leave us. The current time you have with ones may have had times of trouble or disturbances, like a place you built and live in, you can remodel or change decor you still have the original house built for you. Managing a good landscaped home while making sure the weeds are being pulled out by the roots while the ground is moist from a clean fresh rain is easier to keep the yard, gardens from dying or  being controlled and taken over by weeds, poison ivy and such like.

Caring for trees and plants pruning and trimming them will help limbs and plants to grow and become a healthy plant to keep their color with strong limbs for continual growth. Pulling weeds out as soon as you see them start to come up from the ground is easier to bring forth others than letting the roots dig in deeper and spread out in the ground.

Keeping a homes landscape kept clean makes the outside looking great. But the inside of the house may be a disaster. 

When you are trying to sell your house you keep it presentable for anyone who may be searching a house just for them. And looking at an inside of a home that is clean and maintained is a easier way to make a sale.

As your life continues it’s journey while trying to enjoy the time you have to be with family and friends. There is nothing better than recalling enjoyable moments you shared with others. Memories are hard to beat when reminising good times together. of course with the times of joy, you do recall disappointing moments you may desire to have the ability to change the past. Many times the past is great education for the current times and future.

Wounds are difficult to heal if after the process of healing if the scab continues to be pulled off, then it takes time to start the process again.

 The deeper the cut the longer it may take to heal. As ones has had times of stress with others circumstances arise many times not even planning on it. Just like a bandage will help heal, comfort and pure emotions will help reassure there are open arms to catch you and lift you up. After you fall down while you are being helped up both have a grip using muscle to pull the other up.

A new start for the Year.

At the beginning of each new year the common history has been to have ambitions and enthusiasm to achieve from a list of intentions and targets to pursue for the year.What if we look back at other times when thoughts and determinations were a success, some were categorized under prosperity, to strengthen our daily life within and others come as our walk continues each day. Prosperity is usually from times past searching and questioning for understandings, while gaining new knowledge with further education to press farther. Other occasions it may help to think “what have I accomplished” instead of “what did I push aside or did not care about that may have been a need or obligations for others. When I have a lamp that no longer seems to work my first thought “need a new bulb.” Then I look and see it was unplugged so it lost it’s original connection from the power source. Another quick idea “oh I just need to replace it.” Then as I continue investigating for the reason why I see the the main power with was turned off not sending the power i needed. Many times severing the origin of activity or function of the heart is like trying to start a car without a strong or recharged battery or spark plug to ignite it. Having fresh ideas and open hearts while bonding will be like filling up the tank with new fuel to keep pressing forward with brighter expectations. God’s power can assist to be the strongest power of strength we can hope by desiring an understanding the path we seek. But the beginning starts when we put our trust and heart towards Him while treating others as we would desire to be approached and seen with a life and mind full of the “Fruits of the Spirit” as we walk or daily lives putting god and others first. That is the best way to be called a Friend or to create new relationships.

Pursuing with Victory in mind.

Accepting mistakes wither it is your own or another you are searching for, the correct answer may be in front of you and the wrong decision was made through one’s own choice.

Reaping the benefits or adopting incorrect perspectives, or not having complete understanding ideas from the past may be unsure but pursuing the correct or proper and receiving the answer was not judging history but learning from it.

Examples are those who take on and continue searching for the characteristics of God.

Other times going contrary may bring forth  greater expectations coming from a different time or paths in everyone’s journey.

History does not always have to be repeated, but continuing without maneuvering while watching the direction that is attended to reach, change may be key issues in life.

To finish this thought for this direction and path or thought on this site I am able to stay in touch with a friend we were on the same teams playing 3 different sports. We played different positions on each team, different coaches and players were with each one. The common denominator on each team was playing with the same mindset like the others “team work”. We came out successful 2 of the 3 teams we played on, and came short at the end of the other reasons, but every player had their own part on each one. But the heart of enjoyment of my part of playing on each team, was the bond and respect for each other and choices each player made was supported and important even if a misjudged play or decision was made. And in times of short comings or not having correct accuracy of thought for the win, the feelings to blame or dishonor ones efforts while trying their best, will take away feelings or emotions of playing as a team having the same expectations to be delivered or come to.

Being successful as a complete team was our mission of playing together.

Like having connections with others with the same goals in business is trusting each other holding them up and working together is the need for success.

The most important ones in our lives is the family from blood to marriage plus friends that feel and are the same in our lives. A heart for God is having love and faith for others, and individuals that have oversight in our daily lives can be a challenge. Forgiveness and mercy will provide a power and love in life, and will hang downfalls snd stumbling blocks that will not a longing to be drawn upon again. Just leave it at the cross.

Hope within All

Everyone has some hope in life. Here in Nashville there is a billboard that many dream about even myself,

it shows the total amount of the lottery you have a chance to win if you play. The common thought “What if I had the winning ticket?” Some proceed to purchase to take a chance to win. Some will purchase quick pick, others will use certain numbers they feel is lucky. The random thought by playing more with the continual numbers the greater the odds. If using the same numbers with the more tickets you purchase weekly the percentage is greater with change of numbers. With that same routine of numbers with each weekly drawing the odds never change. The chances may decrease with less numbers to match, but dreams will continue. 

Now let us change perspective and with the goal to achieve. With family and friends what type of a relationship would we have with each one if your all was given towards closer connections, without expecting anything monetary in return?

The desire is to become or to get closer with each individual with a feeling of family with loyalty in heart between each other. Having closer connections without monetary ideas but of heart is a true bond. As you reach out with desire for others will reap greater feelings and hope you will find. Even with friends or ones you listen to, you can always learn something from each one, even when you disagree with many ideas and thoughts. But friendships still develop and grow.

Feelings can be like a live hot wire through an electrical current towards others, it takes a electrical switch box to be on to keep a network of relationships alive. Many times circuit breakers or wires need to be upgraded, with the original wiring still is in tact. When 2 or more separate lights go off, there is usually a common denominator and reason. A lamp will not work without being plugged in.

Like my mothers recipes I enjoyed, I may need the precise ingredients to have the same taste to match. But many times it  is not taste the same without matching amount of ingredients . As once was, relationships can still be created if the original emotions and feelings to put the other one first with care to balance and reconnect the same feelings together. As you get older ones increase the thoughts of watching the ingredients and try to create a healthier recipe trying to keep close to a original taste. And even your taste buds and desires of foods change as you become older. But relationships will change some as you stay together the longer you are together. But the original feelings will grow and become stronger as you continue to learn and understand one another, as the minds change as older ideas and what was a necessity through talents and abilities no longer mean the same. But complete emotional hearts and minds become greater as you desire to give more and do more for ones, without them even asking. Strong bonds are expressed as ones think what ones need before they would express or even ask for something. 

Over all combinations of ideas and helps, while needs increase staying by ones just shows meanings of emotions of hearts, minds and feelings towards others you put ahead of yourself. As a Godly love and heart develops in all lives, searching to help and be concerned for others before yourself is all God is searching for. That will be what is desired to be and feel like a complete family.   

Having Liberty of Decisions

The word “free” is the most eye catching word for all humans. Majority of the time I will be thinking “what is in it for me.”

“How I can get something out of it”

Free) The definition has various descriptions or meanings, and how you use the word is by your own choice. In our daily society “free” may be the most eye catching advertising word that will be used. “What is there or they have for me.?” When you live a life with a heart filled and lead by the “fruits of the spirit"

But a heart of “giving” is having a free will towards and for others, which is following God’s will. Expression of the heart through the act of helping others without desire of return is a heart of love and charity. Help fulfill ones needs and assistance in life.

But charity does not always displayed through a monetary item or product, but the desire of giving from the heart mind soul. And strength.

To commit or provide for others is a purpose of life to become stronger and to have a greater spiritual life and the walk with God.

Putting to death hate, the roots of bitterness, anger, wrath, judgment, selfishness. That was bound through the tree of “Knowledge of Good and Evil.” After the elimination of all the negative selfishness issues towards destruction of feelings of the heart brings a rest bonding and peace. Disagreements to prove while destroying others will do more harm, than trying to understand others opinions or point of view. The mind is set from a child, “to take and not to give back.”

Resurrecting the heart and mind by the fruits of the spirit is being Christ -like.

The “Tree of life” opens the heart of love to take control of thinking, having a caring mind and spirit to be submissive and humble. Lascivious in life leads to a desire to blame others, and assist to be judgmental and not to have a mind and heart of forgiving with charity, virtue and love.

God’s feelings to have a family to share all was through the creation of Adam and Eve, and he placed them into the paradise and a realm to be with him.

So the realm God created to share had complete vegetation for health and nourishment for complete strength within. This atmosphere was established with pure food and water to keep life alive. With no pollution as the fresh Co2 hovered and flowed throughout all the living creations.

The tree God placed in garden for Adam was full of life for the heart and mind of love, not of judgement and selfish decisions.

The option to help and continue to develop and grow in God’s will, was through the rest of the trees were fresh and alive within and placed in the “Garden of Life.” for option of choice. There was only one in the midst of the rest that God gave the ability of decision for the mind and soul to serve and not take. The opportunity was offered to be able to “freely” eat at of all the trees with fresh fruit to live with God. The Tree of life was to share of the fruits of the spirit that will express a Christ-like attitude of life” a strong life to build and develop to a full maturity full of nutrients and protein to grow.

If accepting mistakes wither it is your own or another you are searching for, the correct answer may be in front of you and the wrong decision was made through one’s own choice.

Reaping the benefits or adopting incorrect or not having complete understanding ideas from the past may be unsure but pursuing the correct or proper and receiving the answer was not judging history but learning from it.

Examples are those who take on and continue searching for the characteristics of God.

Other times going contrary may bring forth  greater expectations coming from a different time or paths in everyone’s journey.

History does not always have to be repeated, but continuing without maneuvering while watching the direction that is attended to reach, change may be key issues in life.

To finish this thought for this direction and path or thought on this site I am able to stay in touch with a friend we were on the same teams playing 3 different sports. We played different positions on each team, different coaches and players were with each one. The common denominator on each team was playing with the same mindset like the others “team work”. We came out successful 2 of the 3 teams we played on, and came short at the end of the other reasons, but every player had their own part on each one. But the heart of enjoyment of my part of playing on each team, was the bond and respect for each other and choices each player made was supported and important even if a misjudged play or decision was made. And in times of short comings or not having correct accuracy of thought for the win, the feelings to blame or dishonor ones efforts while trying their best, will take away feelings or emotions of playing as a team having the same expectations to be delivered or come to.

Being successful as a complete team was our mission of playing together.

Like having connections with others with the same goals in business is trusting each other holding them up and working together is the need for success.

The most important ones in our lives is the family from blood to marriage plus friends that feel and are the same in our lives. A heart for God is having love and faith for others, and individuals that have oversight in our daily lives can be a challenge. Forgiveness and mercy will provide a power and love in life, and will hang downfalls snd stumbling blocks that will not a longing to be drawn upon again. Just leave it at the cross. The word 
(Free) The definition has various descriptions or meanings, and how you use the word is by your own choice. In our daily society “free” may be the most eye catching advertising word that is used. “What is there or they have for me.?” When you live a life with a heart filled and lead by the “fruits of the spirit”

the desire will be for others first than “myself”. Giving your all for and to others through the heart is a challenge but our goal in life.

Languages from the Heart When we think from heart, is to relate to the life and world with emotions of love, that is not premeditated by thoughts or planning with ulterior and selfish motives, rather it is responding instantaneously with the direct vibrations triggered by expressions or feelings in reactions that interact with personal events of relationships within the inner most being of our heart, mind and soul. Having passion is developed by living the utmost care, by displaying a heart of charity, concerned affectionate behavior to others. Spirituality in real sense is beyond thoughts, feelings and senses, beyond mind, as all these are the creation made by and riddled with ego, which is anti spiritual! Intuitive relating to the world with almost reflexive awareness that is beyond mind is spirituality. It is more wholesome and integrated than the tiny and petty ego can weave. None of us needs instruction but times assistance in how to recognize what your heart is saying. We do need guidance, however on how to have the courage to follow those feelings, since they will force us to change our lives in any case. But consider the consequences of not listening to the heart's guidance: depression, confusion, and the wretched feeling that we are not on our life's true path, but viewing it from a distance. What is speaking From the Heart? Before we sell the merits of speaking from the heart, we must first define what it means.  What does it mean to speak from the heart?  It is a metaphor for speaking with genuine emotion.  It is not deliberately inserting emotional material to elicit emotional responses from different ones.  Who says the only feelings from the heart is sadness? If your heart is glad, let it be glad!  Speaking from the heart is being open from feelings present for the moment. An open and charitable heart should be the center of our life.  It is sharing from your essence, in each moment.  It is being authentic, being real. Too much focus on technique bulldozes the ones that desire to share feelings with you.  They do not get a chance to join in because we are too busy actively displaying or proving to them our latest ideas, or selfish ways. When we yearn for something our goal is to fulfill that desire or compassion we have for ourselves. Times we may feel for others and try to help, but can that be caused from a selfish act to manipulate or influence ones and receive utmost wishes for our self? But if we speak through a heart for others, we will try to penetrate a closed path into others hearts. We can come to a conclusion when your are really trying to talk to ones with a heart of love and charity, the effort to listen and share a full desire to show your willingness to make a way for them to feel your mind and heart is there when they would need to call upon someone. Many times you can tell them to take it in prayer to God, but if they do not have a basic understanding who God is, being a person with a heart of charity and care is what we can do to help express for them to choose the way to God. That is how we are able understand the mystery of God’s love, by following the path that Christ left for us in his word. (Having a tongue of the mind, or heart. Words to come across with the right spirit will override all wrong thoughts and actions.) Wholehearted devotion- Doing with all your heart soul mind and strength. Taking time out of your lifetime to help and do for others. No matter the outcome, if you give all you have through your heart is all God desires his followers to search for. If your goal is to help and love having the right spirit and attitude without recompense in return is all you can do. But if I think to be closer to God by telling if someone is living right, or having the right spirit, do I love ones greater than myself? Humans always enjoy telling another, that they need a heart or disposition adjustment. My heart should always be concerned for all others than putting myself first, and doing God’s will. That is how I can show God I will do His will, and love him with all my heart, mined, soul and strength. Devoting my life to God should be my goal in life. Yielding my life towards the feelings of others, by giving my life to the needs of family and all who need friendship. That is being a true child of God, by living with a Christ-like heart. A loving sincere heart is full of kindness and charity, with a loving spirit to help and not attack others, from disagreements to misunderstandings, or just anger built up from past happenings. There have been times I still have or once had hardships and discouragements kept in my heart, I did not release those feelings and all it caused was disturbance of my daily walk. That is where the heart of forgiveness comes into play. Holding on to past experiences is the hardest to get rid of in our heart, soul and mind. All that does is fills up the heart with anger, strife, hate and bitterness. Retaliation is what is in all hearts of mankind; revenge comes about by dwelling and not letting go. It is tough to turn the other cheek, walk away as anger is building up, it has always been hard for myself, it was very heard and that is what caused Abel’s death. Anger and jealousy was built up in the Heart of Cain. Cain did not put his whole heart in trying to find a sacrifice that god desired Him to give. Doing my best and giving all I have towards ones that need it in times of trouble in their lives. The decision to release and let go o f my desires first, and not seeing the needs for others is again under the category of selfishness and outing myself first, and not regarding for others feelings. Love to give with a free-will not expecting in return. Christ gave His life, and God gave all He had His only begotten son. Christ gave his physical life, but a gift of giving myself through a heart of understanding, without reason or question what about me, which is what charity is all about. Charity can fall under the category not just giving to needs, but having compassion with the right attitude for others. A judgmental call comes from the heart and spirit of pride and bias towards my own conjecture or predications. When I go forth by trying to prove ones wrong without realizing that I can learn from others thoughts, or consideration and regard to others. To prove is my Heart or Mind? Does anyone really need to prove that they are living a life for God? Ones that are working and talking by their heart and mind, will be shown by example by the way they live and walk daily through love and charity. Even if someone claims to be walking in God’s path or been called, does any Christian need to express their walk with God verbally, to really show God is working in their lives? Am I able to tell others, that they should live the way that I think a Christian should live? Or is it God’s choice to examine and to let ones know, in their heart and mind, what way God desires them to live? God does use ones to explain the written word through translating the word from Greek, Hebrew, and Latin definitions into the English language. During the 20th century when God was pouring out of His Spirit in the land, how can anyone say who God was calling or working with? God reached out to individuals he chose and asked them to follow to be used for his will, to preach and spread His word. God began to call Men to preach salvation and living by the fruits of the Spirit. In some cases God saved some people from the sinful world, but they still had difficulty with certain cravings of the world. God has delivered ones from sin, but ones may still had problems with illegal substances or habits of life. If God forgave them from this sinful world, and the individual continue to serve God with all their heart how can I say anything? How can I question God’s reason for not delivering them from their addictions? As long as ones continue working for God without harming anyone Spiritually, again how can I judge God? Being spiritual is working in many ways in God. The Fruits of the Spirit and the Sermon on the Mount are the most detailed ways God has asked for His people to live by. God working in ones lives is very important, but letting God use me by living the way He asked me to live, is all up to me. Salvation in God’s eyes is far greater vision than what my human and spiritual eyes can see. In life natural vision would be hard not to live with. But in my case I hit the time in my life where I had to start using reading glasses. But my son and my wife’s natural vision are far worse than mine. Does that mean with their assistance with glasses to bring they are nearsighted vision to 20- 20, does that make my vision of the stars any brighter? Man’s view of the vast stars in our galaxy, is very minute to God’s sight. God’s spiritual galaxy is far greater and more interesting than what man can see or understand. Having in possession some complete teachings of God’s word, how can I say that is greater than having a right spirit? Looking at the Centurion and the Rich young ruler, which one had the right spirit? Having the right spirit sometimes is far more important. When talking to people daily in my profession I need to be listening more than speaking, at times that is tough to do. Many discussions may bring a different viewpoint that what I may be use to hearing or seeing, but goal everyday is to learn something new everyday. If I start the every day at work with the idea, I am going to tell everyone how things are because I said so, would not go over very well. So in other words, my perspective may not always be right in others minds but slow explanation is what is needed majority of the time. If I see someone is searching for help or assistance with some understanding of what they need, I could be in a position to release my heart unto the desires they may need. Explaining ideas from an individual’s heart should be achieved if I know how to with a right spirit and an open mind and heart. Each time I open my mouth I try to since their feelings as I bring across my thoughts through my heart only for the purpose to help not to overtake or overbear them with my mind, but prevail with my heart. Trying to share and to push myself into the minds of others, are two different attitudes, one from the mind and the other from the inner most being of my life. When I exchange my goal is to performed live it from my heart. In sporting events ones may remember a team player that fumbles, turnovers or will make errors, but if that player latter in the game helps the team to win due to a last shot, a home run or runs the ball over into the end zone all incomplete plays incorrect decisions are put aside and forgotten after the game has been won. Life can be more enjoyable if mercy, forgiveness and charity would be embraced and then received by all family and friends. A grudge or bitterness will always keep disagreements and misunderstandings alive and living within hearts and minds daily. Outcome in games in championships series mistakes and miscues have changed results of games, but holding it over anyone may not help. The years I have played sports the best way I learned to correct my misplays or incorrect decisions was not from discouraging corrections but through my coaches helping me to see different viewpoints and help me to concentrate for the next play. Letting go of prior games helps to press forward and opens up for new development. Encouragement will always help improve and grow, where as judgement and criticism without a full or complete understanding of how the team is thinking, will cause setbacks and the ability not to succeed. To study and recall any past actions or choices many times will not give the answer “why” but help to conclude and guide you and think what to do next. Team effort has been the only way I was taught and helped for every win we achieved. Recognizing a coaches success is not by the number of wins, but by each player being able to pass on to the next generations how to seek with their hearts and minds how to press towards a goal of maturity and continual new development, and a attitude to work hard together with unity as a team. ( John Wooden) “ Be more concerned with your character than your reputation. Your character is what you really are while your reputation is merely what others think you are. It is only up to you to desire what you want to be.”